Just how interested in shemales r u

[redsoxgirl]

Hi, I am a female and have a boyfriend that is interested in shemales. That's all he watches as far as porn goes. He says he watches it because it is different.
So I have a few questions. When I first found out, him and I started experimenting. He likes anal play and on occasion he likes a dildo in there.
Im curious with him liking that, do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Hi, I am a female and have a boyfriend that is interested in shemales. That's all he watches as far as porn goes. He says he watches it because it is different.
So I have a few questions. When I first found out, him and I started experimenting. He likes anal play and on occasion he likes a dildo in there.
Im curious with him liking that, do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?

WOULD HE LIKE TO BE WITH A SHEMALE ?
You're blonde AREN'T YOU ?

[fatbloke]

I'm affraid you are in for a shock,your boyfriend likes shemales very much,i'm sorry but you have to make a decision.
This is sad but true hunny,sorry

Does he want to be with shemales - Yes
Will he be with a shemale one day - No way of telling
Will he stop loving you because he like shemales - No

Keep him sexually satisfied which it seems you are and he won't have any reason to go to shemales he will simply keep it as a fantasy.

[Arthur]

I think he would certainly be considering it even if he does not have the bottle to go through with it.

My interest in Shemales was only possible due to the internet so it was a fairly recent thing. For years I had fantasised about being fucked by another guy and always wondered what a cock would taste like.......it remained a fantasy for a long time because basically, I'm not gay (and I have a brother that is, so its not as if I can claim denial at this late stage ), blokes just turn me off and for ages every time I tried to imagine a situation with a guy it was just like urgghhh.

So, like your relationship we turned to trying a strap on........trouble is, its not part of a woman and woman really cant use them as a guy would. Many guys like anal sex, it's nothing new.

The thing is, Shemales are something new, they look almost like women and some are truly stunning in the male eye. The only thing that sets them apart is the very thing that attracted your bf to a dildo.

In the end I went to a shemale escort and decided not to tell my wife........just a step too far in an otherwise totally open and trusting relationship. If you are really, really open minded then you might consider bringing a Shemale into the bedroom with you (not many Shemales are up for that so it might be difficult to find one), in the end you would be bringing a good looking male into the bedroom and not a biological woman......weird huh, he thinks he is getting a woman and you can see it's a guy. I dont suppose he would go along with you suggesting that you fancied a threesome with another man, but that is exactly what it would be.......I reckon if you suggested it he would be very shocked, but at least you would be giving him the freedom to choose, if he said 'no way' you know where you stand.

[WudLuv2try]

"do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?" --- YES.

[xpanther]

Interesting to hear that he is honest enough to share this with you. I have been in a hetro relationship for a number of years now and though I love cock, specially shemale cock, I have never had the guts to tell my girlfriend of this... personally I was into shemales before I liked girls... I guess when you love someone, it isn't just what is between their legs that counts... xp

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Hi, I am a female and have a boyfriend that is interested in shemales. That's all he watches as far as porn goes. He says he watches it because it is different.
So I have a few questions. When I first found out, him and I started experimenting. He likes anal play and on occasion he likes a dildo in there.
Im curious with him liking that, do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?

[redsoxgirl]

Originally Posted by xpanther

Interesting to hear that he is honest enough to share this with you. I have been in a hetro relationship for a number of years now and though I love cock, specially shemale cock, I have never had the guts to tell my girlfriend of this... personally I was into shemales before I liked girls... I guess when you love someone, it isn't just what is between their legs that counts... xp

No it isn't that he was honest and shared it with me, it is because he got caught. One thing that must be understood and it is not just my boyfriend but many. If he were to have a relationship with a shemale well, I think that he would be looked at as gay. After all there are two cocks involved. I know that isn't the case, or at least I don't think he likes men in that way. Many men keep a relationship with a woman to distract their interest. I have known many married couples who have found out their husbands are gay and have been hiding it. If they are married and happy who will ever think.
So yes I know he likes shemales (because he says they are different) except he wont tell me just how he truely does like them. Got any suggestions on anything I could say or do to make him open up to me or do you think he will always keep it to himself?

[Arthur]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

No it isn't that he was honest and shared it with me, it is because he got caught. One thing that must be understood and it is not just my boyfriend but many. If he were to have a relationship with a shemale well, I think that he would be looked at as gay. After all there are two cocks involved. I know that isn't the case, or at least I don't think he likes men in that way. Many men keep a relationship with a woman to distract their interest. I have known many married couples who have found out their husbands are gay and have been hiding it. If they are married and happy who will ever think.
So yes I know he likes shemales (because he says they are different) except he wont tell me just how he truely does like them. Got any suggestions on anything I could say or do to make him open up to me or do you think he will always keep it to himself?

What exactly do you want to discover redsoxgirl ?

[underthere]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

If he were to have a relationship with a shemale well, I think that he would be looked at as gay. After all there are two cocks involved. I know that isn't the case, or at least I don't think he likes men in that way. Many men keep a relationship with a woman to distract their interest. I have known many married couples who have found out their husbands are gay and have been hiding it. If they are married and happy who will ever think.

He is more than likely bi-sexual but likes the idea of a little sexy girl with a big dick. Lots of men like anal, to get and give, but don't share it because someone might think they are gay, which, they're not usually, they could go either way to get anal though. I'm wondering if you are so interested because you would like to expand your sex to include screwing him with a dildo? That might make him happy. Let him give you some anal and see if he likes that, once you get used to it, you will cum like a rocket going off. My wife loves anal and screws me with a dildo all the time and we have never been closer.

[redsoxgirl]

Originally Posted by underthere

He is more than likely bi-sexual but likes the idea of a little sexy girl with a big dick. Lots of men like anal, to get and give, but don't share it because someone might think they are gay, which, they're not usually, they could go either way to get anal though. I'm wondering if you are so interested because you would like to expand your sex to include screwing him with a dildo? That might make him happy. Let him give you some anal and see if he likes that, once you get used to it, you will cum like a rocket going off. My wife loves anal and screws me with a dildo all the time and we have never been closer.

We have tried it before many of times, it is obvious that before me he hadn't (at least I don't think so) because it's really tight and he wont let me go in all the way. He says it hurts. He has gone back there plenty of times it seems that's all he wants to do and though I have had pretty good orgasms it's not my fav.
What am I looking for, well for one thing for him to be honest with me. I told him there is nothing he could say to make me leave. Well unless he wanted to be with a shemale and not me, then I would leave. So why not tell me.

[xpanther]

As you caught him out and now you know his dirty little secret... he is embarrashed. Lots of bi curous guys like the idea of sucking cock, fantasize about fucking a shemale... but never follow through. The internet is full of transexual websites and shemale porn is everywhere. If he can't be honest about it with you, it is probably because he can't be honest with himself.

I wish I had a girlfriend to share my interests. I know the response I would get, if I told the truth. It would sadly end my relationship. But that is just my situation.

Give him some time. Let him tell you instead of you pushing him too hard. Share your sexual interests with him, show him that its ok to be bi, kinky or even a bit depraved sometimes...

xp

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

We have tried it before many of times, it is obvious that before me he hadn't (at least I don't think so) because it's really tight and he wont let me go in all the way. He says it hurts. He has gone back there plenty of times it seems that's all he wants to do and though I have had pretty good orgasms it's not my fav.
What am I looking for, well for one thing for him to be honest with me. I told him there is nothing he could say to make me leave. Well unless he wanted to be with a shemale and not me, then I would leave. So why not tell me.

[brian621]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Hi, I am a female and have a boyfriend that is interested in shemales. That's all he watches as far as porn goes. He says he watches it because it is different.
So I have a few questions. When I first found out, him and I started experimenting. He likes anal play and on occasion he likes a dildo in there.
Im curious with him liking that, do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?

Do you want to watch your boy suck shemale cock and get mounted. Get your boyfriend to pay for a professional. You ask the questions and make sure she is up to the task. Look for 8 inches or more. If you like what you see let him watch her please you.

[Arthur]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

What am I looking for, well for one thing for him to be honest with me. I told him there is nothing he could say to make me leave. Well unless he wanted to be with a shemale and not me, then I would leave. So why not tell me.

Be true to yourself and what is the one question you really need answering ? If he was going to be totally honest and open, what question would you ask?

Take the first thing that comes into your head. Remember this is about what you need answering and how it affects you. How you feel about things is most important.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Hi, I am a female and have a boyfriend that is interested in shemales. That's all he watches as far as porn goes. He says he watches it because it is different.
So I have a few questions. When I first found out, him and I started experimenting. He likes anal play and on occasion he likes a dildo in there.
Im curious with him liking that, do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?

Redsoxgirl... oh my, oh my, oh my... well... yes, darling, your husband has an attraction to transsexual women, and that will never go away. So the big issue is whether the two of you can live with that and make your relationship work with that recognition.

You seem like a very openminded person, so why not?

Let me ask... do you have lovers on the side? Do you guys consider having a socalled "open" relationship? I was married to a woman in such a relationship, and it worked wonderfully. So you can too.

Your husband will forever be attracted to transsexual women, and he may during his sexual route in life find attraction to other types of sexuality as well... and so will you! So better you guys sort it out right now instead of postponing the inevitable.

Best wishes and many kisses!

Hank

[cockluva]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Hi, I am a female and have a boyfriend that is interested in shemales. That's all he watches as far as porn goes. He says he watches it because it is different.
So I have a few questions. When I first found out, him and I started experimenting. He likes anal play and on occasion he likes a dildo in there.
Im curious with him liking that, do you think he likes or would like to be with a shemale?

Your boyfriend is longing for a huge shemale cock to tear up his arsehole, and be forced down his throat so he gags on that girly meat, and these feelings and desires ain't never ever gonna go away.

hell i'm so interested that i straight up wanna marry a ladyboy and spen the rest of my days with onethat is my dream

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

We have tried it before many of times, it is obvious that before me he hadn't (at least I don't think so) because it's really tight and he wont let me go in all the way. He says it hurts. He has gone back there plenty of times it seems that's all he wants to do and though I have had pretty good orgasms it's not my fav.
What am I looking for, well for one thing for him to be honest with me. I told him there is nothing he could say to make me leave. Well unless he wanted to be with a shemale and not me, then I would leave. So why not tell me.

REDDY:

Why not tell you? He's afraid to lose you. If you said I want marriage, he would say goodbye if it was a problem. If he didn't care what you think or if you'd leave, why hide it? A person can be bi by being open to bi, willing to do bi, turned on to both in many combinations; but decides to pick one over both. Why not tell you? 2 cocks = gay in your own words, and in the words of most. He doesn't want to be gay, or thought of as gay. He's embarrassed, doesn't want you to see him as less than a man, or as a freaky man.

Nothing wrong w/ being whoever you are w/ whoever you want, but it's easier to say than practice. It sounds like fantasy that led to dildo play within a straight relationship, and viewing something different from plain vanilla.

You caught him looking at t-girls, a different kind of porn; and most guys like porn w/some open about it, some not. He could maintain the interest he has now for years w/o any problem for you, because he has already gone as far as he dares.

In reality, his reluctance to talk about it, to hide it is more positive than negative.


Piece,


TAL

[redsoxgirl]

Originally Posted by Talvenada

REDDY:

Why not tell you? He's afraid to lose you. If you said I want marriage, he would say goodbye if it was a problem. If he didn't care what you think or if you'd leave, why hide it? A person can be bi by being open to bi, willing to do bi, turned on to both in many combinations; but decides to pick one over both. Why not tell you? 2 cocks = gay in your own words, and in the words of most. He doesn't want to be gay, or thought of as gay. He's embarrassed, doesn't want you to see him as less than a man, or as a freaky man.

Nothing wrong w/ being whoever you are w/ whoever you want, but it's easier to say than practice. It sounds like fantasy that led to dildo play within a straight relationship, and viewing something different from plain vanilla.

You caught him looking at t-girls, a different kind of porn; and most guys like porn w/some open about it, some not. He could maintain the interest he has now for years w/o any problem for you, because he has already gone as far as he dares.

In reality, his reluctance to talk about it, to hide it is more positive than negative.


Piece,


TAL

Even if he told me I wouldn't leave. I love him and accept everything about him. No i don't think he is gay I was saying that he wouldn't go out in the "open" with this cause people think 2 cocks = gay.
I have had a pretty interesting dating life. I dated this guy and after awhile I figured out he wore womans clothes and wanted to be a woman, If I was the type to judge I would have left screaming. I didn't. So one night I came to pick him up for a date and he was completely dressed as a woman. We went out to dinner, then a movie then we walked the beach. In the end he decided not to take our relationship further because he wanted to be with men. Oh and by the way, I was jealous, he was prettier then me. You couldn't tell.
A few other people i have dated has also liked womans clothing and such. Its always about whats on the inside, cause looks don't last forever.
The only reason I would leave if he were to do anything behind my back.
As far as me being intimate with a shemale, well never thought about it. I have kissed a woman before and licked her boobs but I never went that far, it didn't really turn me on, but I have to say cock does turn me on.
So would I do it. I don't know.

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Even if he told me I wouldn't leave. I love him and accept everything about him. No i don't think he is gay I was saying that he wouldn't go out in the "open" with this cause people think 2 cocks = gay.

RED:

Remember, some people say if you tell me so and so, I wouldn't do this, that and the other. Then, they do just that. This area hinges on past relationship memories of how other people have reacted to him in any and all other situations. It's an extremely complex issue, and not some simple A-B-C thing. EXAMPLE: he could be holding back due to a relationship w/ a demanding parent from years ago.

[q1a2z3]

I have never seen an act of anal sodomy yet that didn't look painful if the designated "Ned", as in Ned Beatty, was sober. It's a funny thing about the rectum, it was designed for "stuff" to come out not go in. It looks like a very painful hobby from here. If you want a guy who only loves chicks you definitely want to keep looking.