How "SECRET" is your love of shemales.

[tlover]

pal's post "am i gay" were he worried about other people knowing his secret love of shemales got me thinking, how the rest of us are with it.
Would love to know just how open or secret you all are about your love of shemales.
So a set up this poll.
A bit serious this one.

1. VERY SECRET. I have never told anyone, partner, family or friends about my love of shemales and i never will.
I'm to scared of the consequences or repercussion's.

2. SECRET FOR NOW. I have told no one yet, but might consider telling someone close in the future.

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

4. NOT A SECRET. Most people know about it and i'm quite happy and open about it.

5. EVERYONE KNOWS. I shout it from the rooftops, i love shemales and i want everybody to know about it.
Hell I'd suck my girls cock in public if i could!.. stuff what the world thinks.

[eliogabalo]

Very interesting poll !!
My love for ladyboys is bordering on worship and adoration and i talk about him with many persons. My mother and my father know i love shemales ( "You're the disgrace of our family!"; "You're a pervert" etc.) I told the truth to my mother 2 years ago, and she reported all to my father ... Very very amusing ...
I talk about my love for ladyboys with my friends too. It's not a secret.

secret for now..

i hope one day i find a ladyboy soul mate, then obviously it won't be a secret at all..

i'm not even sure, maybe i will never find a ladyboy for me and it will always remain "very secret" as it is right now.. no one i know personally knows of this, and i don't plan on telling anyone SOON. maybe when i'm a lot older or something.

i think my mom would not care as she is a very kind hearted person, my dad would definately care because he has always been a "macho" man.. i do believe if i tell him our relationship would never be the same.

but whatever, i love ladyboys and i won't stop until something proves me wrong.

[gizmo]

I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it!

[tlover]

Wish i had your courage gizmo.

Originally Posted by tlover

Wish i had your courage gizmo.

hey tlover what about you?

[tlover]

i'm in the secret for now, hope to find understanding partner one day.
would love to be i dont care who knows but not where i come from, I'd probably be lynched, and I'm a bit of a coward, I'm afraid to say.

nvm

was gonna ask where you live but then i read it on your thingy

[tlover]

UK north west area.
i work with a lot of macho types.

[ts_lover]

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

[mykel73]

There are a few people who know.

[markknyc]

Very secret...one of those things.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by ts_lover

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

Why not? TS

[Ogryn1313]

Where I live it is wise to keep such interests secret. Too many rednecks here.

[TranJesus]

i love them and scream it out to the world

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313

Where I live it is wise to keep such interests secret. Too many rednecks here.

haha where do you live man?

[Ogryn1313]

I live in Cumberland, Ky. It's right on the border with Tennessee and Virginia. Very rural and close minded about many things. And maddening! Johnson City Tennessee is about 2.5 hours from me and has a bar where gays, crossdressers, straights, and possibly shemales go. I've been there. And there were people from my town there! But I can't get there anymore. My car is too unreliable. It's the kind of trip you need to stay over night for. Same with Knoxville Tn. Seems that part of TN is quite openminded.

[Nalos Surith]

I prefer to keep it private, but I wouldn't, mind a friend in my area with a like minded love for ladyboys.

[darkways]

Personally, I'm not concerned about if anyone knows or not. I used to be, but just developed the attitude of it doesn't matter. Its my life and I have to answer for it not someone else. Now I don't go broadcasting it either. I feel that is a private decision, but if someone finds they just find out.

[hankhavelock]

From the minute I had my first relationship with a transsexual I was totally open about it. It got me some curious questions from time to time but I've basicly only been met with a positive attitude from friends and family.

I'm proud of my girl friend - she's beautiful and sweet - and showing up with her in hand in hand in public is a treat :-) I'm fairly handsome, so surely we get some looks, but that's only amusing. I'd say it's cool :-)

[yobydal]

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

[Distance]

Noone knows but me.

[EbonyTSLover]

SOME KNOW. One or two close friends know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

[floydthebarber]

I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

[cockntits]

woe is me very secret

[tlover]

Originally Posted by floydthebarber

I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

Iam into it more and more now, and i think this happens to all of us tlovers, you will probably find this out, but 3 years on its still a big secret for me.
Like you i think my girlfrend would be very disturbed by it and i would hate to upset her.
Its a difficult dilemma.

[padeligne]

everyone that knows me, also knows that i fall for shemales. i am not ashamed of it, on the contrary.

[tgirl virgin]

Only those in other shemale forums.

[cucumber]

Very secret... For now :D

[Second Day]

Very secret.
The thing is I got a gf who I love a lot and I think she would freak out if she knew...

[Imconfused]

I have a question. I recently found out that my boyfriend loves to "wank" off to shemales.
What is it about a shemale that turns you on?

Also one night (awhile ago) we were have sex and I wanted to see how he would react, I rubbed my hand down his ace crack and then started to insert a finger, he didn't stop me. Infact when we were done he said you prob think I am weird for letting you do that to me... I didn't know how to respond. Anyways he took my hand and put it down there for me to insert my finger again. So I did.
I don't have a problem doing that, but my question is....if he likes woman with c@cks does that mean he wants to be with a real shemale, rather then just watching them?
Also for about the last two weeks, he has been "wanking" off to the shemales and has completely ignored me in the sex deptartment. Is there a problem here? Maybe he is thinking he would rather be with a shemale?
someone please humor me

[Excaliborg]

a most likely answer is that he is fascinated by this new fantasy that he is experiencing. it can be a bit overwhelming at times. please try to understand a man's sexuality is every bit as complicated as a woman's.

there is a problem if he continues to ig nore you and refuses to talk about it.

[tlover]

I wouldn't worry too much most of the guys here love females and are not gay.
What turns us on about shemales?
That's quite complex, i think for me its the beautiful femiminity of the female with the fascination of the hard erection and slight masculine side.
I think most men have a bit of a fascination with there cocks and other men's cocks but don't get turned on by the male sex.
So the female form coupled with the cock is irresistible.

I think most men get turned on by the idea or the fantasy but wont admit it.
As for him rather being with a shemale, i think you will have to expect this is just another side of his sexuality, he may want to have sex with a shemale or just fantasize about it, it doesn't mean hes going to leave you for a shemale.
Many men here have wives or girlfriends and just visit shemales now and then, his might just be a fantasy.

How did you find out and how long has his interest been? i think you need to talk to him about it.

I agree with Ex that at first when you discover a new sexual interest or fantasy it can totally consume for a while but this eventually passes and things will probably return to normal eventually, so i wouldn't worry too much just yet, let him indulge for a while until it eases.

What about your fantasies mabey you should talk to him about yours, mabey you could work each others fantasises into the relationship.
Why should he have all the fun.

[georgedemesa]

VERY SECRET im am the only 1 who knows that i love ladyboys

[SweetCharmer]

i' keeping mine to myself for the moment but soon i'll let the world know

[danaik42]

Originally Posted by yobydal

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

no one knows bt i always go to gay bars with my brother and his girl friend and if someone shows intrest in me i do talk to them but i can not live with them coz my brother is there.i think the main problem for is that my parents are catholic and black at the same time.i was also caught cross dressing and she beat me up

[Shemlover]

It's very secret, only I know so far. And at the moment I plan on keeping it that way. I don't think there's anything wrong with liking shemales, but right now I don't see why anyone else needs to know about my sexual fantasies. I have a very wide sexuality anyway, there are so many things that turn me on. I don't think any of my friends/family really want to know about all of that.

[mobiryder]

mmm well i own a tranny blog... and all my friends know about it... and i post true, accurate stories... so everyone knows about it, EXCEPT my family (thank god my mom would have a heart attack)

[Imconfused]

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

[2WayStreet]

Have talked to a few close friends(Straight guys) about LBs, and all seem bewildered as they say a girl is better.

[ripulinaama]

Nobody knows , and thats ok that way :-)

[orion_pax]

very secret!

One I'll probably take to the grave! (which hopefully will be a very very long time! )

[Jpone]

I would rather keep it a secret

[warblade]

I love ladyboys specially they are so sexy but I have to keep it very secret because the rest of the world is not ready for it, I wish I had a friend or somebody who like them much as me

[Dells]

Very secret. I'm in no rush and feel no need to tell anyone about it, and unless I end up meeting and dating one irl things will probably stay that way for me.

[lpegna]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

Hi. Well... This is kinda hard to explain, at least for me right now. But I'll try to make myself clear. If my wife would discover I like to watch shemales, ladyboys, etc. I'd panic myself! Because we always think our woman is going to leave us or something like that if she knows.

We always try to deny because we are not ready to face up the consecuences of the thoughts we have. Lets say, if you tell me you accept me _even_ with my special hobby, anyway I'd try to fix things saying I don't like and that was only a search that went wrong or something. I'm not really ready to handle that. I think I need to be a little bit more mature to accept that my wife is _accepting_ ME, the whole _me_.

Don't know. I'd last for a while before trying to talk to my wife and accept I like to watch, but I really enjoy making love to her.

How do you feel as his woman? You accept him AS IS, but are you afraid him to prefer eventually a shemale? How do you see his behaviour? I see a lot of shemale stuff, but anyway I am completely fullfilled with the relationship with my wife.

This is a kind of hobby. I'd like to have contact with a ladyboy, because I like that they are very femenine, but they have a penis between their legs, but sometimes I feel strange, because I like my wife a lot.

It is just this idea of having a kind of "dual body". It's facinating.

I hope you understand a little bit more my point of view.

Best wishes for you.

[gunslinger1985]

Secret for now. Some-day, I don't know. I have jokingly mentioned it to a friend, but I got a few weird looks. I think a lot of people find shemales at least a little interesting, but won't admit to it. kinda unfortunate.

[knight]

Some people know, my mum knows and some of my friends know and everyone here knows.

[TSLuva]

Huge secret, I was & still am excited (could hardly sleep the night I first found this site) about finding this forum & finally being able to communicate with others that worship these beauties.

[curiousguy51973]

My admiration of shemales goes beyond secret. I work for the government and it could possibly cost me my career, and I don't wish to test that.
I am married and my wife does not like my viewing porn. But we do occasionally go to sex toy shops to look around and see what we might enjoy. The last time we were there, we saw a "Shemale Love Doll" on the wall. Her response to it has led me to believe that if I play my cards right I may be able to introduce her to my love of shemales someday. At least, here's hoping anyway.