playing with Ladyboys

[kelly]

Rules for playing with Thai ladyboys.

1) Treat them with respect. Remember they are working for a living. If you respect them, they?ll respect you, be courteous and gentle. Ladyboys will respond in kind.
2) Don?t get falling-down drunk, you?re asking for trouble, stay sober and you?ll enjoy the experience a lot more, and your ladyboy will be a lot happier. Nothing worse for a ladyboy, than carrying a drunk farang back to his hotel. If you?re paying for a service, get the most from it, and you and your ladyboy will have a lot more fun, and on the plus side you?ll remember all the details the next morning. For god?s sake don?t pick up a ladyboys from the street, you?re almost guaranteed to have problems. Always ensure you partner deposits her ID at the hotel reception desk.
3) Don?t go to a ladyboy club and pretend you want to take her home. Be straight with them. If your only there to watch the show, then tell them, they will understand and leave you alone to relax and enjoy your beer while the looking at the girls. Don?t buy drinks for a ladyboy and get her to spend an hour with you , then you decide to leave without taking her home, she?ll get angry with you for wasting her time.
4) For god?s sake don?t treat her like she?s an alien or something. She?s a beautiful Thai ladyboy, and should be treated like any other girl. I?ve seen guys who?ve taken ladyboys from a club, but then walk ten paces behind them down the street, too scared to hold their hand, or embarrassed they anybody might see them with a ladyboy. Get over it. Bangkok is full of ladyboys, nobody will give you a second look.
5) If your ladyboy stays with you all night and you?ve competed you commercial transaction. Buy her breakfast, it?s not expensive, and she?ll appreciate you for the kind gesture, food is cheap in Bangkok, inviting her for breakfast, it?s a nice way to part after a night of great sex.
6) Buying presents for ladyboys. This is not recommended, apart from cheap trinkets. If you do buy expensive gifts, it can convey all kinds of signals to your ladyboy which you may not be ready for. If you?re not really serious about her, then its best to stick to cheap perfume, or flowers. However if you do find your beautiful ladyboy soul mate, and really want to take her home, then by all means shower her with gifts.
However a word of warning: I?ve seen a lot of guys who?ve brought Thai ladyboys home with the intention of marrying them, 90% fail for some reason. The only successful marriages between Ladyboys and a farang seem to be with guys who actually live in Thailand and I know of a couple of guys who have married Filipino ladyboys in Sydney Australia and one guy who learned Thai, he could speak it fluently. I watched him and his pretty ladyboy one night at dinner, a couple of words together resulted the kisses and hugs, leaving the rest of us wondering what they were talking about. These seem to be flourishing, however they are in the minority.
7) If you intend to spend time with her, then have fun, she?ll enjoy it and so will you. Go to the movies. Walk in the park , enjoy a great meal, visit the temple,.
8) I once had a Thai girlfriend who visited the temple every day?she prayed we would get married. It as an impossible dream.
I flew home, she called me a few times, but realized it was going nowhere.

A buddy I know in Sydney married a stunningly beautiful ladyboy.
All was okay for about one year, then the wheels fell off. Too many guys hanging around her.
He applied for a divorce, and because it was a short marriage things worked out on his side., she departed back to Thailand.
Friends say she is back working the streets of Pattaya.
However some lesions do work.
A friend of mine met a beautiful lady in Ankor Watt (Siam reap) in Cambodia. They spent the next three years texting and emailing each other every day.

I thought it was a no-hoper, but he persevered. He brought her to Sydney, they married and I?ve never seen two happier people. He?s in the minority?..a welcome change to the usual disaster stories. But remember he?s a minority.

The moral of this stuff is:
Generally don?t get involved with your ladyboy??..it?s a recipe for disaster. But although in the minority?some have been successful.

Kelly.