Married but into shemales?

[sirply28]

Originally Posted by silverback

I'm very grateful to have found this forum, as it has helped me see that I'm not a total freak for loving shemales.

I'm straight, married with a son, but have been into shemales for the last 10 years or so, since long before I met my wife.

She doesn't know, and neither does anyone else....and they never will if I can avoid it.

I fantasize about meeting the TS of my dreams one day, but don't really want to cheat on my wife - in short I'm a bit conflicted. How many other guys are in my situation? Do you have any advice for me?

Fortunately I live in a place where the only shemales around are some not very attractive 'professional girls' so I haven't been tempted to stray and I'm still a virgin (so to speak).

WoW. Im glad I joined as im in the same boat your in. The only difference is im in south cali so theres quite a few ts around. I keep trying to contain it but I also feel like the urge is getting unbearable now. This sucks....

[Mad_Nad]

I'm married, I love my wife... but I fantasize about having sex with a pretty and slutty, big-boobed and big-cocked dominant shemale! And I can't do anything about it!

[Be_my_nude]

Secrecy, Guilt, Lust, Dreams. Do all these have to be realised for you to have a ' complete ' love life ? You think you know the person you are with, but apply the can-opener to their perceptions of you and you risk infecting your relationship with a super-bug.

It's all about maintaining and respecting another person's privacy. If they keep secrets, then it is what they need for their own security. And as for yourself, don't fart in the face of another person's feelings for you - you might presume too much on their good nature !

By all means tell us on the Forum - much safer that way.

[megalops]

I'm married and strongly attracted to T-girls as well as feminine gay men. No, my wife doesn't know. But then, I have yet to have sex with a T-girl and last had sex with a guy 25 - 30 years ago. Because of my job (medical social worker) I've met several pre-op T-girls but have to keep a professional distance. (Which is difficult at times.) Don't know when or even if I'll ever fulfill the fantasy because I tend to put friendship and connection first over sex first. And I have little interest in a professional.

[wildts81]

i think u still love ur wife...

u just hungry for 10 years.

[littletwink]

Originally Posted by jo1079

Look i need advice on how to approach my husband about being into shemales/ladyboys. At 1st i was pissed off and hurt but after reading some of these posts most men feel they need to hide there feelings and to be honest i would rather see my husband happy than to have never known what the rest of our lives together would be like.. so what i need is for someone to helpme approach him- how do i approach him without him lying . what should i say or do for him to open up to me. I would even do a 3some 4 him. His been to thailand a few times and when he got back last time i saw 2 pics of well it look like girls and now his msging this person on a different number but i cant see what the msgs are only the numbers to whom he msgs, so they could be ladyboys but then again they could be females. i would love to post the pics on here and get other ppls advice on that too so if it turns out there female that another rd to go down.. Can anybody helpme pls, im confused and hurting and want my husband to be truthful to me, i will accept this situation but he has to start being honest to me 1st...

True story?

Well, if it is true, then buy a strap-on (without his knowledge, of course), and give him the surprise of his life the next time you're getting intimate.

[jo1079]

I hope that I am seriously cause how stupid would i look if i was wrong.. The few signs i have seen are... Well he always borrows porn off his mates and he brought a few home and there nomally straight but there was one where it was shemales and he kinda acted surprised at 1st (well thats what i assumes) but then he kept watching and i was like wtf?? he was like dont u find it funny?? then his always joking about ladyboys, but what confuses me is i started rubbing him on the cock then tried to finger his ass and he liked the rubbing part but when i inserted my pointy finger he was like it hurt??? now he fucks myass and one finger is NOTHING!!!! so wtf????? is he embarrassesd??? And yeah true story its happening right now.. i ♥ this man and would love to see him at peace with himself ..

[gugnius]

I would like to have a date with TS... Write me if you are interested.. I'm tall, 24yo brown eyes and hair...Please contact with me

[jo1079]

Originally Posted by tamar

I would like to share my bf with his wife but she is such a bitch. One of my great thrills was meeting at party when I still had her husband's cum inside my puss, and she never knew. I wonder if she knows what he is thinking about when they have sex!

Ok im married and have a idea my husband is msging a ladyboy in thailand and is keeping it from me and i really welcome the idea because i love him and want to see him happy and it kinda turns me on thinking of having a 3some with him and a shemale. but if i was to approach him what should i say?? how would u like to be approached?? honestly i dont like being lied to and his gonna loose me if he keeps being so secretive about his mobile phones... can u help me please??

[Translover Jonny]

I have been interested in shemales for at least 15 years but i was stupid enough to think that i would pass. So what did I do I married a girl like we guys are supposed to do. We lived together for many years but i was never really happy because i couldn?t let go of my fascination for shemales. The other stupid thing i did was that i never told my wife about it, I?m divorced today and now I can at least be honest with my self. I regret that I wasn?t honest to my self right from the start it was not very nice against my wife either! So be honest thats my advice to you

[pantyhosesissyinma]

I have the same feelings as you. Once our son was born my wife went totally crazy and hated me for a long time. She would not have sex with me and was verbally nasty. It has been 11 years and I have only been able to see her breasts on a few occassions. We have missionary sex once a week (i think she just does it hoping it will satisfy me and i wont screw around). She hides her pussy and I have not been able to go down on her in 11 years. I luv to eat pussy & am pissed. I live in Boston and years ago ended up going to a club where transexuals and cd's hang out. I met an asian cd and had a relationship with her for about a year. since then i have hooked up w a few others but feel guilty at times. if my wife was into me and dressed up and acted like a woman i do not think i would have strayed. she wears sweat pants and sweatshirts 99& of the time. The only reason i stay with her is because of our son. not sure if this is the right decision or not. Even though I love cd;s and transexuals I am in now way attracted to men, i do not even like m2m porn just shemale oriented. The girls I met have toped me and i have toped them also. I am just glad i live in an area where there are clubs and places to meet them.

[nwiguy]

I've always fallen into strange situations without really trying. Maybe it's a sin from my past life? My luck with women has been really good although, I'm only 5'3" (thanks dad, you prick). Back in '87 I had my own home remodeling business and would frequent a quiet bar going over blueprints to make a bid. I knew the owners very well (Scarlett Tree in Seattle) and they would let me do my thing, quietly at a table, in a well lit corner. The new waitress was very kind and left me alone, unless I needed more coffee and jo-jo's. After, her shift was over, she sat down and was inquisitive about what I was doing. Well, blah, blah, blah later we went to a different place for dinner and drinks ( I wasn't attached at the time). She was so fun to talk to and be with! She seemed to know, beforehand, what I was going to say and was very intelligent in her responses. Lo and behold I noticed a bulge under her skirt but for some reason I didn't care.
Fast forward to 1992. We had a very torrid affair for about 5 years and I decided that this is the person for me and that I would spend the rest of my life with her. I think that I overwhelmed her with the idea of settling down and the possibility of adopting children. She disappeared Sept. of '92 and I have not seen her since. Her name is Megan Post.
I have since married a wonderful Russian lady (11 years now) and have no regrets but still pine for my Megan. She was just too special.

[shawnx]

I am 48 and have been into tgirls for almost 20 years, some of that time has been off and on but has been heavy the last 10 years. I am a little different than some of these guys because my work is involved with tgirls, along with my own tgirl sites, I create a lot of tgirl sites for tgirls and tgirl escorts, im actually engaged with a real woman and she knows about my work and also knows i have had encounters with them. I have not been with one in a while . trying to be a good boy! but its tough sometimes.

[knewbi]

Married here too. I am Bi and love the way women look and feel But I do love a nice cock and a shemale would fit my fantasies perfectly. Have had a number of guys to play with but always feel that I am missing out without a shemale experience. I will some day. That is a given. And perhaps the fantasy is better than reality but I really would love trying the reality of it all.

[Esteban123]

I am married too. I had the chance to have an unexpected relation with a shemale before I got married. It was a really nice experience.
My wife would not accept my fetish, anyway she is has almost no interest in sex. But I love her so I want to stay with her.
If I have a chance to have a love affair with a Tgirl, I will do it for sure, but I will keep it secret. Many people would think that I am stupid to think in that way, but for me love and sex are 2 different things. In another hand, I do have love affair only rarely.
If you want to listen to my opinion, I would say that you should enjoy time with a Tgirl if you want it. BUT do not forget that you will feel bad after this kind of experience if you do not separate your love for your wife and your sexual desire.

[Trannfan]

another married one. But that's not a problem at all