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I have posted the poll at the blog so more people would have a chance to vote.
Do you wish to stop getting turned on by shemales?
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Love for shemales is the best illness that i know. The symptoms are: joy, happiness and a permanent condition of euphoria. Please, don't cure me ...
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That's a very interesting thought, i suppose a lot of us are a little ashamed by your love of shemales and to have the opportunity to be cured of our love could be an attractive proposition.
For me i think i would not like to be cured, as it is just another part of my complex sexuality that i would not like to lose because the fantasy brings me much pleasure.
So why miss out just because i feel a bit ashamed of it, anyway nobody need know of it.
Another thing is the shame of it actually makes it more exciting, that something naughty you should not be doing felling you get as an excited child.
So no i vote to keep my illicit pleasure thank you.
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I wonder how homosexual people would vote given the same opportunity.
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People may think it's an illness, but I don't!
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Just my opinion but I dont think you can really cure something thats not a illness. I wouldnt change if I had the chance, not like having a thing for tgirls will hurt anyone.
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I wonder how homosexual people would vote given the same opportunity.
I wonder how heterosexuals would vote :D

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I wonder how heterosexuals would vote :D
Well, it's not exactly the same thing... I think homo men (as well as TS lovers)have to face some pressure from the society for being "not normal" and this is the "price they have to pay" for that added pleasure...

now, for a hertero man, that thinks the pussy is the best and the most beautiful thing on earth, the idea of loving the cock and at the same time facing some prejudice from his surroundings might seem scary, don't you think?
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if i should be "cured" of my marvelous love for shemales, i would become an alcoholic or commit suicide. what is a life without joy?
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Well, it's not exactly the same thing... I think homo men (as well as TS lovers)have to face some pressure from the society for being "not normal" and this is the "price they have to pay" for that added pleasure...

now, for a hertero man, that thinks the pussy is the best and the most beautiful thing on earth, the idea of loving the cock and at the same time facing some prejudice from his surroundings might seem scary, don't you think?
You know, i like the provocations ... but a lot of males are so obsessed by the pussy that their life becomes a real hell ... women have ruined many people ...

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Hell no ii luv shemales so much and being attracted 2 shemales iz anything but an illnes OMG how repulsive Itz a gift if anything there beatiful
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To me the cock is perfect sex tool. Pussy is very over rated. Mix that with attuitude. Who needs to be cured of what! The cock on a nice femboy! now that is art! It is always better with a joy stick!

I have no need to be cured! I want to be with the shemales, femboys. I perfer a world of pretty femboys, shemales. I have no use for mere pussy! Stay with the cock! To me it is the heteros who need to be cured.
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I don't see myself or anyone else who likes or loves shemales to have an illness.

Having feeling's or fantasy's about shemales is not an illness, I really don't give a crap what other peoples views are towards me or fellow shemale lovers, I don't feel like an outcast, I don't walk down the street twitching or talking to myself, anyone who thinks they have an illness because of their sexual preference shouldn't worry, you do not as I don't need some cure which doesn't exist as the illness doesn't exist to start with

I went to a friends house a few years back, there was a women there who tried convincing me that all sexually related crimes (rape,child molestation etc) were committed by people with illnesses and that they shouldn't be locked up in prison, they needed medical attention and counselling to make them better people so that can be cured all this at my tax paying exspense, what a load of bollocks, sorry but I don't agree, anyone who commits any of the above offences needs executing end off, bullets cost next to nothing, plugging them into the mains would only cost the same as making a brew 10 times a day

Apology's for the rant I know I have gone way off topic, but my thought is, that no one with a sexual preference is ill
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fuck a cure i am waiting for a live dosage
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There is nothing to be cured of for loving shemales. It's the way a person is. Don't even try to cure me, I'm not sick.
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it's a passion not a disease!
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It's not a disease, so i don't want to be cured.
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it's so stupid that people would think it as a disease
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Hi everyone...

Its a but messed up, but I had to write it somewhere..

Love for shemales is not a disease, but obviously Shemale Sex Lover was not speaking literally about the cure (thats why you may find " signs around the word cured). We are who we are, love for t-girls is part of our preference collection, its ours. Someone has it at it extremes, for others its only a delight.

But that's from our point of view, we've been there, you know... For outsiders we might look odd and wierd in loving shemales, so getting rid of love for t-girls is nothing but cure in the eyes of others.

Would I want to be cured?.. YES I would... and I have a few reasons why.

For the past 5 years my life has been revolving around t-girls. But in a very frustrating way. I have NOT had sex with t-girls. I have NOT been together or talked to a t-girl. How was my life revolving aroud them then?.. I'll tell you. Everyday, every hour I am thinking about t-girls... When I am at work, I think about them... When I am with friends or my fiance, I think about them... When Im alone, I am on internet browsing them... Waiting and then when my frustration reaches max level I cool off masturbating on them... And then I get so sad and disappointed in myself... And everytime I say to myself that I will not masturbate on t-girls, nor will I think of them again...

But the next day, it comes back... I can't fight it... This urge... Wanting ti see one... And unfortunately, wanting to be one... That's another huge part... For over 5 years I want to be a shemale too... Thats crazy and sick. ... I have been trying to fix it for years now... I did everything I could... But I can't fight it... It always comes back, no matter what I do.

I am working part-time at a very nice place, studying in a great university.. I love a girl so much, and she loves me back so much too... But Im not happy... Im not... Because of this affection.. This want, need or whatever you call it... I have everything a normal person would dream about, but one- happiness. I have trapped myself with friends and people around me, who would be soo sad if they will find out about this...

I would love to be cured, but its not gonna happen. But I guess its life

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I don't see my love of shemales as something that needs to be cured, I like the fact that I can see their beauty.
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When Im alone, I am on internet browsing them... Waiting and then when my frustration reaches max level I cool off masturbating on them... And then I get so sad and disappointed in myself... And everytime I say to myself that I will not masturbate on t-girls, nor will I think of them again...

But the next day, it comes back... I can't fight it... This urge...
wow, that is my exact story. And i have to agree with you i would like it to go away because I have what i feel is a normal life and this desire really doesn't fit into it. I have friends that i have grown up with since kindergarten and i am really close with my family. My family, friends, and people around me i feel would be disappointed. So i guess that is why i would want to be cured, or feel comfortable enough that I could be honest with people about what i really like.
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I don't think that there is anything inherently wrong or anything to be ashamed of by finding these girls attractive or sexually arousing. I myself do - and have for a while - but I still identify myself as a heterosexual and give it no second thought. Be happy with who you are, regardless of what turns you on... there's too many terrible things that can happen to you in this world to be ashamed of something as petty as this.
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I would never want to be "cured". There is nothing wrong to fix anyways. I like shit the way it is.
NO changes for me thanx.
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Love for shemales is the best illness that i know. The symptoms are: joy, happiness and a permanent condition of euphoria. Please, don't cure me ...
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Yes, I want it to go away. I used to see trannys on TV and be repulsed by them because they were ugly, and looked like men. I thought all trannys looked like this until 5 months ago, and then I looked at tranny porn on the net after I had a sexual thought about a woman with a real cock, and it was awesome. I still see a lot of trannys as disgusting, but the thought of a real woman was a nice dick drives me crazy.

I have always been repulsed by gay thoughts, and seeing guys on a TV still makes me feel ill, but I feel like I can't even call myself straight any more, even though I only like girls, I just want girls to have a nice good looking cock. I've always found pussy boring, I don't know why.

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Yes, I want it to go away. I used to see trannys on TV and be repulsed by them because they were ugly, and looked like men. I thought all trannys looked like this until 5 months ago, and then I looked at tranny porn on the net after I had a sexual thought about a woman with a real cock, and it was awesome. I still see a lot of trannys as disgusting, but the thought of a real woman was a nice dick drives me crazy.

I have always been repulsed by gay thoughts, and seeing guys on a TV still makes me feel ill, but I feel like I can't even call myself straight any more, even though I only like girls, I just want girls to have a nice good looking cock. I've always found pussy boring, I don't know why.
I really hope you can deal with all your issues. You may want to question why the mere sight of gay men makes you feel ill. I've read your posts and there seems to be a bit of conflct going on. You are attracted to women with a penis, but not attracted to transsexuals - that's a tough one to work through I imagine. Good luck
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Yes, I am conflicted. I know I don't like men, because I've never felt attracted to one, and all my life seeing gays kiss on TV has made me wanna vomit, but I like a woman with a nice cock?

I know just wanting a chick with a cock doesn't make me gay, but does being attracted to some shemales who just look like women do?

Am I even making any sense? haha.
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Yes, I am conflicted. I know I don't like men, because I've never felt attracted to one, and all my life seeing gays kiss on TV has made me wanna vomit, but I like a woman with a nice cock?

I know just wanting a chick with a cock doesn't make me gay, but does being attracted to some shemales who just look like women do?

Am I even making any sense? haha.
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I coudn't stop thinking about beautiful,sexy and hung shemales any more than I could stop thinking about beautiful and sexy gg's. I wouldn't want a cure because I don't believe that I have any kind of a disease. I enjoy feminine beauty no matter what the genitalia.
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An interesting topic SSL. I suppose that there are some gay people who wish that they could be "cured" of their situation, but they need to be at peace with who and what they are. Am I gay? No. Do I think that transsexuality and homosexuality are dieseases? No. If a cure was offered, would I take it? Yet again, an astounding no. I am happy with who I am and the only thing that could make my life better that I can't do myself, is to find a beautiful, passable T-Girl with a huge penis and isn't afraid to use it.

I have debated with myself quite alot over the past few months, and still debate within my mind now which path I should wish to walk down. On one hand, I want to have children one day and raise them to be little geeks like me.

Yet on the other hand I am not satisfied at all with the sex I have with my girlfriend (I only lost my virginity a few weeks ago. Virgins are stereotypically meant to last for like 1minute at most or something? I lasted 1hour 10mins and still didn't cum) because it is just shit boring. I actually catch myself thinking in the middle of it "when is this going to be over? This is so boring. To think I gave up playing computer, watching TV or sleeping for this", so I wish I could have a T-girl who could satisfy me by fucking me in the ass and I can fuck her in the ass. Someone who could get a little more exciting than missionary position.

Sorry I deliberate off track. Back to the task at hand.

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Its a but messed up, but I had to write it somewhere..

Love for shemales is not a disease, but obviously Shemale Sex Lover was not speaking literally about the cure (thats why you may find " signs around the word cured). We are who we are, love for t-girls is part of our preference collection, its ours. Someone has it at it extremes, for others its only a delight.

But that's from our point of view, we've been there, you know... For outsiders we might look odd and wierd in loving shemales, so getting rid of love for t-girls is nothing but cure in the eyes of others.

Would I want to be cured?.. YES I would... and I have a few reasons why.

For the past 5 years my life has been revolving around t-girls. But in a very frustrating way. I have NOT had sex with t-girls. I have NOT been together or talked to a t-girl. How was my life revolving aroud them then?.. I'll tell you. Everyday, every hour I am thinking about t-girls... When I am at work, I think about them... When I am with friends or my fiance, I think about them... When Im alone, I am on internet browsing them... Waiting and then when my frustration reaches max level I cool off masturbating on them... And then I get so sad and disappointed in myself... And everytime I say to myself that I will not masturbate on t-girls, nor will I think of them again...

But the next day, it comes back... I can't fight it... This urge... Wanting ti see one... And unfortunately, wanting to be one... That's another huge part... For over 5 years I want to be a shemale too... Thats crazy and sick. ... I have been trying to fix it for years now... I did everything I could... But I can't fight it... It always comes back, no matter what I do.

I am working part-time at a very nice place, studying in a great university.. I love a girl so much, and she loves me back so much too... But Im not happy... Im not... Because of this affection.. This want, need or whatever you call it... I have everything a normal person would dream about, but one- happiness. I have trapped myself with friends and people around me, who would be soo sad if they will find out about this...

I would love to be cured, but its not gonna happen. But I guess its life

Whatever is done, is done for the best )

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dude, you seriously have some major issues you need to sort out with yourself. If you believe you are Trans-Gendered, go to a psychiatrist and undertake some gender therapy to see if you suffer from GID (Gender Identity Disorder), and if you do then take whatever steps required to make you happy, even if that means taking the long bumpy road of transitioning. There is nothing sick or wrong about what we love and/or do, and to keep fighting your nature can only end in misery and pain in our hearts and minds. Do what makes you happy buddy and it will all turn out fine.
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Do you wish to stop getting turned on by shemales?
The entire concept of this poll is by my view based on an utter disrespect for the fact that we're not all prude people with the prude people's limited mind set.

I know that the initial poll was not meant to be disrespectful, and I'm not in any way saying this to attack the poll itself, but it shows how we still bow to the rules of Mr. and Mrs. Morally Right...

Gay-people have over the last 40 years been quite successful in changing the mind set of the world around them - unfortunately this has not to the same degree been the thing for transsexuals. So there's a lot of work to be done before we can walk the street in pride hand-in-hand as man and transsexual woman.

But let's still do it! Who cares what the minimal-mind moral majority thinks?

I don't - so no, I consider my love for transsexual women a GIFT and a personal TRIUMPH - ain't no way nobody is gonna take that away from me :-)

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The entire concept of this poll is by my view based on an utter disrespect for the fact that we're not all prude people with the prude people's limited mind set.

I know that the initial poll was not meant to be disrespectful, and I'm not in any way saying this to attack the poll itself, but it shows how we still bow to the rules of Mr. and Mrs. Morally Right...

Gay-people have over the last 40 years been quite successful in changing the mind set of the world around them - unfortunately this has not to the same degree been the thing for transsexuals. So there's a lot of work to be done before we can walk the street in pride hand-in-hand as man and transsexual woman.

But let's still do it! Who cares what the minimal-mind moral majority thinks?

I don't - so no, I consider my love for transsexual women a GIFT and a personal TRIUMPH - ain't no way nobody is gonna take that away from me :-)

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damn straight hank! we are the pioneers of a new age! we should all be proud of who we are and what we love (hypocritical of me to say seeings as i'm a "closeted" T-girl lover, but i will come out when i feel the time is right).

just like so many decades ago when the homosexuals demanded to be accepted publicly and socially, we shall to enjoy the same respect and tolerance one day. it may not be for many, MANY decades to come, but i say that we need to start now so that we can get the ball rolling so others may follow in our examples. in fact this will be even harder than what the homosexuals did, because we don't have a name. we are the nameless, crying out into the night air, dying to be heard, but are being stifled and silenced by the bureaucracy, the censors, the ignorant and the fearful, because they know that once we have the power to demand human rights for who we are, they will lose the ability to blind the world from 1 more thing.
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wow, that is my exact story. And i have to agree with you i would like it to go away because I have what i feel is a normal life and this desire really doesn't fit into it. I have friends that i have grown up with since kindergarten and i am really close with my family. My family, friends, and people around me i feel would be disappointed. So i guess that is why i would want to be cured, or feel comfortable enough that I could be honest with people about what i really like.
to be honest id agree with this too. I first saw shemales on the internet when i was about 19-20, up til then id never once thought about anything with a ts or a guy, and was perfectly happy with girlfriends. Then someone sent me a link to a picture of barbie woods as a 'joke' and it turned me on...and ive been looking at tgirl porn ever since. Would i be happier if id never gotten into it? i honestly think so. And if i was given the option to push a button and delete it all from my brain i really would
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Even if this is just a thought experiment, the whole idea of being "cured" sounds pretty totalitarian to me. We'd all miss out on a unique piece of the epic tapestry of life.

As usual, the posts by Hank are cogent, concise, poetic and powerful. However, it is not my intention to elevate, deify, ring fence or segregate. This thread is awash with brilliant posts of one kind or another. Please keep coming here and sharing your thoughts, guys, girls and T-people. And for those people who feel they're in a terrible place, emotionally, physically or otherwise, keep the flame of belief burning .... and talk to someone, even if it's just us few geeks over the internet. Your strife does not have to define you or prevail.

P.S. I know those last couple of sentences probably sound dopey, but I mean 'em. Being honest with oneself is probably the hardest thing to do, but it's also the most important step. Anything else is possible after that!

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P.S. I know those last couple of sentences probably sound dopey, but I mean 'em. Being honest with oneself is probably the hardest thing to do, but it's also the most important step. Anything else is possible after that!
I never really considered not being OUT - damn, I'd just discovered a new part of my self and I was in LOVE with my first transsexual woman! It was DYNAMITE! So of course I needed to share this with friends and family, and they all took it well. They took it more than well - maybe they did not understand my attraction, but they certainly have completely accepted me for my choice.

But I guess I never gave them a choice to think other wise. I blurted it out: My girlfriend is transsexual and she's a goddess. She has opened new sides of and in me and I love her dearly.

I mean, what can you say to that? I didn't come with hat in my hand asking for their approval, I took their approval for granted and received it.

Of course I'm not naiive, and of course I'm aware of the potential troubles such a DANGEROUS thing can bring... I'm also aware that many choose to live in the shadow of other peoples' mind-set. But that's a shame, nobody shouldn't!

Transsexuality deserves utter respect! It's a beautiful way of self-expression, and I'm PROUD to have been loved (still am) by the fabulous and wonderful transsexual women who have shaped my life so much for the last three years.

I'm not unique in that regard - any one here can do the same. Don't let the vanilla-guys who mock you for your choice change your mind-set. Change their's in stead! Be persistant and be above all PROUD! Because you are right, and they are wrong.

The fruits you reap for being true to yourself (and your transsexual girl) are so much greater than the few, unimportant kicks you may get in your path. And trust me, it ain't really hard at all!

Peace!


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OMG!

To read something like this :D

A man who is PROUD.. not just titilated.. PROUD of is T-Girlfriend.

Hank you get
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I guess the answer depends on you.

Do you view TGs/ladyboys/shemales as men ?
I see them as women. I just get excited over a person who looks like a woman with a nice cock. Deep down I know they are really men, and it makes me confused.

I'm not really stressed over this, I just feel like I've lost my heterosexuality and can't call myself straight any more.
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I see them as women. I just get excited over a person who looks like a woman with a nice cock. Deep down I know they are really men, and it makes me confused.

I'm not really stressed over this, I just feel like I've lost my heterosexuality and can't call myself straight any more.
Well, it's good you aren't stressed.

I think if you ask most transwomen, they will say that deep down we know we AREN'T men. I amy not be a woman, who knows really, but I do know I'm not a man. That may just add to your confusion, so let me use an example...

John Bobbet (sp?) had his penis removed by his wife. Did this lack of a penis make him instantly a woman? No, because aside from his genetic makeup, his understanding of himself is male - his identity.

The other question... if you view TGs as deepdown men, and this would make you not quite straight... Is being not heterosexual bad?
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if there was a cure for my tranny fantasy. id return it. i love tannys too much.
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OMG!

To read something like this :D

A man who is PROUD.. not just titilated.. PROUD of is T-Girlfriend.

Hank you get

Amazing, ain't it? ;-) And SO wonderful! My pride in my tgf is beyond measures :-) OF COURSE I'm proud of her! What else would u expect?

Come on!

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I don't see why I'd want to stop being attracted to lbs just as I wouldn't want to stop being attracted to GGs
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i wish i wasn't atracted to shemales i dont think there's anything wrong with it but i would rather just like natural women, as i want to have a traditional family and see my shemale obsesion as a hinderance to that. if there was a pill i could take i would. but there isn't and its best to make the best of every situation, so bring on the shecocks
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in some ways i wish i never came across them (punnn) as it is a bit of a social taboo...hell i think being gay is more acceptable than liking tsexuals these days!

but at the sametime .. its a fun fetish...
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i dont need a cure coz i aint ill i just love a lovely cock on a lovely lb
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A fetish is no illness, but to be quite honest getting rid of my fetishes would make a simple straightforward vanilla relationship a lot easier for me. And of course, not knowing about fetishes I wouldn't know what I was missing. Society is centred around regular, heterosexual relationships and the barriers you run into when attempting something off-beat aren't exactly stimulating.
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It's not an illness, Even if it was i would have no desire to be cured of it.
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Interesting topic! Although the idea of curing me of my attraction to t-girls is akin to giving someone a frontal lobotomy for a mood disorder. It is unnecessary, more than a little over the top, and completely misguided ;oP

That being said, I would think some inner conflict when you first become attracted to t-girls would be normal. I mean it's always difficult to go against years of social conditioning and labels that tell us we have to act and think in a particular way. As long as you're not hurting anyone else, then enjoy!

I'd say there are more guys out there attracted to t-girls than any of you think. The biggest problem is there are too few ladies go around :o(
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