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Ok guys ..... if you took a girl out on a first date and wanted to show her a bit of your personality and what you like to do.
(as opposed to standard going out for a meal) ....

Where would you take her and what would the night comprise .... ?

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Ok guys ..... if you took a girl out on a first date and wanted to show her a bit of your personality and what you like to do.
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Where would you take her and what would the night comprise .... ?

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I would try very hard to find out what she likes to do (other than having a meal) so we could so something we both enjoy. But if it were only up to me, well ... Winter time: I'd find a nice pub with live music (in the background) and ambience that lends itself to an enjoyable conversation. If it wasn't too, too cold outside, a nice walk in the park at some point, where the cold makes even people just getting to know each other for the first time want to huddle closely together. Another time of the year: a picnic is always nice, an outdoor concert, a little jaunt in my canoe, whatever she likes.

I guess I'm a bit of a romantic at heart.

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I would try very hard to find out what she likes to do (other than having a meal) so we could so something we both enjoy. But if it were only up to me, well ... Winter time: I'd find a nice pub with live music (in the background) and ambience that lends itself to an enjoyable conversation. If it wasn't too, too cold outside, a nice walk in the park at some point, where the cold makes even people just getting to know each other for the first time want to huddle closely together. Another time of the year: a picnic is always nice, an outdoor concert, a little jaunt in my canoe, whatever she likes.

I guess I'm a bit of a romantic at heart.

Where would we go, Kirsty? Your choice.


Hello SMC my new friend,

Thank you for being brave enough to respond first ....

Ah you see it's not about what she would want to do ..... obviously we would expect the approach of trying to appeal to her idea of a good night .... but I want the guys to tell me what they enjoy doing and would invite the girl to get an insight of what the guy likes ..... without the attempt to impress her.

A walk in the park during winter sounds very romantic ..... crisp frost/snow on the ground ..... walking hand in hand .....amongst the glistening, sparkling trees ..... cuddling into each other for warmth and comfort ..... boogers freezing between the nose and lips, eyes streaming in the nippy air, hands nipping in the frosty weather ...... sliding on the slippy ground like a sack of potatoes ...... sigh!

Surely better to sit inside beside a roaring fire sharing a bottle of red wine, or hot chocolate with marshmallows, beneath a blanket, cuddled in to watch a great movie you both enjoy ..... and then .....

An outdoor concert in the summer ..... ? what kind of concert?
The canoe .... now that's interesting .... Not the standard answer ..... that would get my attention.

Me I'll give my answer later when a few more have replied ....

and remember it's not what she likes .... it's what you like I want to know ....

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Well, the things I did write were preceded by "if it were only up to me," so I think I am on the track you want.

I love to watch movies. I love movie marathons at home: lots of DVDs, maybe planned around a theme (but not too much repetition), with plenty to choose from and lots of time to spend exactly as you describe. Cuddling under a blanket, minimal clothes because the blanket is hot, but not so minimal as to be unexpected on a first date, with the closeness making it impossible not to touch, and eventually forgetting the movie because the lure of intimacy is just too much.

A concert: I would like to introduce a gurl to some music she thinks she doesn't like, and have it be so wonderful that it changes her mind. I like so many types of music, it would depend on the gurl. But that would be a good first date ... especially if I committed at the beginning -- as I would -- that we could leave and try something else if she really didn't like it.

Going to play some pool (billiards) at an "upscale" pool hall, where drinks are served and it's not too crazy, and we can just have fun without worrying about whether we're good at the game or not.

I find museums, with the right person, to be a very romantic type of first date. It's all in the attitude you take to the outing.

The beach, the beach, the beach. If the weather's decent enough (and for me, that means not storming too hard at the beach), I would take a gurl to the beach for a romantic walk, perhaps some oysters at a nearby oyster bar, and if it's certain beaches, perhaps some playing at the "boardwalk" games like Skee-Ball, etc.

Bottom line: I want to have fun, make sure there's no pressure being felt (except the kind in our pants, coming naturally), and most of all that everything is respectful. There's plenty of time for the naughtier stuff later.

Does that give you a better idea?
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Maybe go bowling or embarass myself roller skating.

Go to the movies and grab a bite to eat , then walk through the park holding hands and laughing , talking about everything.
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Darn. Smc beat me to the walk in the park suggestion. Nice one, smc.

If there was sufficient snowfall, I would like to go tobogganing with her(preferably a large one that could fit both of us at once). If the sky is clear we could look up as the stars streak across the sky as we descend down the hill. Afterwards, once we are tired out, we could lie down on the toboggan and look out at the night-time sky. I would hope that the temperature was not too cold so we could get more enjoyment from it.

Afterwards, perhaps a nice glass of warm apple cider could warm us up after spending so much time outside.
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I always like athletic chicks, so I'd like to do some type of physical activity depending on what time of year it is. So during the winter I would take her out skiing/snowboarding/sledding, during the summer I would take her to the beach to either just chill out and get to know each other while soaking up some sun or to surf/beach volleyball/beach soccer, spring and fall are a little bit trickier for finding an outdoor sport to play so I would probably take her to a sporting event like a soccer or football game. There would also be a nice dinner included in all of these dates, and a possible walk in the park/along the beach/or sitting next to the fireplace to just talk and get to know eachother.
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Two words: Gun range. If they have never fired before, a .22 is always a great starter gun. It will not give them a wallop like a .45 or a 30-06 and is more enjoyable to shoot.

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Well, on a lovely sunny day, I would invite her for a tour of my vineyard in the Napa valley California. We would hold hands as we walked down the rows of thick green vines loaded with lushious red grapes. I would pick a bunch and feed her grapes one by one. We would then return to the winery where I would show her the wine making process. In the wine cellar, I would tap into an aged barrel of wine and pour us fine glasses of Pinot Noir and we would sit out in the garden sipping our wine and I would encourage her to talk about her life.
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

The worst dates have been where we went on an expensive dinner and a show. The absolute #1 WORST date ever was going to a dance club - seriously, avoid that one - no chance to talk and "meat market" atmosphere don't lend well to a first date.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

The worst dates have been where we went on an expensive dinner and a show. The absolute #1 WORST date ever was going to a dance club - seriously, avoid that one - no chance to talk and "meat market" atmosphere don't lend well to a first date.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?
Wow, a gurl who doesn't even want the guy to try the whole "impressing" route. That's a gurl I could easily fall in love with. Bionca, even though I'm not a huge fan of horror movies (though I love movies in general), and you'd probably kick my ass in any video game we played, I would be honored to have a date with you exactly like you describe!
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

The worst dates have been where we went on an expensive dinner and a show. The absolute #1 WORST date ever was going to a dance club - seriously, avoid that one - no chance to talk and "meat market" atmosphere don't lend well to a first date.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?


BIONCA:

Actually, you just taught me something. Thnx.

I think this is a subliminal event, as well.


The best dates involve the least in expectations from the recipient.

There is less comfort for the recipient on the expensive date with regard to unspoken expectations.

The meat-market date is the most uncomfortable for the recipient, because of the reputation of drinking, kissing, and desert at home.

What say you?


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She wouldn't get anything fancy and we would have a simple dinner. I would like to take her back to my place just to chill and play some mass effect.....but I don't know many women who like the xbox so I'm pretty sure I wouldn't get far by breaking out my level 30 renegade shepherd. I know a few spots around town that could be romantic and of probably take her there instead. Like maybe going up Charleston to overlook Vegas or something.


Yeah all of that is boring lol.
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

The worst dates have been where we went on an expensive dinner and a show. The absolute #1 WORST date ever was going to a dance club - seriously, avoid that one - no chance to talk and "meat market" atmosphere don't lend well to a first date.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?
That's exactly the point of this thread girl ..... thank you.

It's all very well when a guy someone makes a great effort to impress a date ..... but does it show much about their character .... do you get to know them ....?

Often such a date is purely trying to anticipate what the other person may be impressed by ...... and doesn't give an insight into what spending time with them would really be like.

I so agree with you about Dance clubs .... not in the slightest bit conducive for conversation ..... a whole night spitting in each other's ears ....may as well stay in bed for that ....

The purpose of this question is basically trying to find out what makes each other tick ..... so no, your answer is most definitely not "lame" ..... it shows what you are like .....

By the way .... would a grade A horror film just spoil the date for you Bionca?

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Nothing about your idea of a perfect date is lame, Bionca. It is actually pretty nice!

Planning the date like that means that there is less pressure on either person, and they would have more of a chance to be themselves(some people are a little more shy around large groups of people when they are first trying to get to know someone.). It can also be a more intimate date(and I don't mean sexual) with it just being the two of you around. A more relaxed person usually means a happier one, and the date could be loads of fun.

Delivery, B-grade horror movie(Evil Dead, perhaps?), video games, comic books! Holy hannah! I like all of those as well(quite a bit, actually), and to me that really would be a perfect date.
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

The worst dates have been where we went on an expensive dinner and a show. The absolute #1 WORST date ever was going to a dance club - seriously, avoid that one - no chance to talk and "meat market" atmosphere don't lend well to a first date.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty awesome huh?
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I?ve only been back into dating for a little over a year now but I typically like to choose something that allows us to talk and get to know each other such as dinner and then a walk or coffee or drinks later.

My ex and I used to go on Corvette or motorcycle trips through Brown County (Indiana) in the Fall. Very scenic and beautiful at that time of year, lots of places to shop or just walk around, and places to pull over and?

One of the best dates I?ve had recently was last December when I went over to my new ladyfriend?s place. We cooked dinner together and then snuggled up to watch a ?Charlie Brown Christmas? and ?It?s a Wonderful Life.?

We went to see ?Avatar? a week or so later and it turned out to be a terrible date as she was visibly shaken by the intensity of the movie. We both agreed the movie was awesome but it would have been bad had this been a ?first? date!

Another memorable date was when my ex and I were first going out and we went downtown for dinner and then to a ?Martini Bar? that had pool tables. We closed it down. And then a long drive back to her place where we talked and really got to know each other.
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An interesting question Kirsty!
...If I were trying to do something that exposed a bit of my personality to a girl, (and was trying to avoid cliches), I can come up with a couple of ideas for first dates...
I definitely like the idea of going somewhere to hear live music---something I enjoy, not too noisy or smokey, (maybe outside), and I would pick a band that hopefully she would like too.

Another idea is taking her out to an "Art Walk" or something similar. This is where neighborhood art galleries, bars, etc. all have open houses and usually have music, wine, cheese, etc. Its nice to walk together and talk, people watch and see art--another interest.

Hiking/biking/walking in the park would be nice as I like doing all those things, and enjoy being outside, but they are also pretty good first date things to do

I might also invite her to go antiquing or junk-finding. I enjoy doing it, and its fun for most people. Perhaps have some coffee and pie somewhere, (or maybe a pint!)

Also, as I like to cook, I might invite a girl over for dinner and then we could watch a movie...(I love movies!)

I wouldn't want to push my interests on any girl, but any of these would show a little bit about what I like and who I am without being obvious.
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?
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Actually a coffee shop was my first date with T.
He was a client then phoned up a fortnight later & suggested A costa coffee.
Chatted for ages.
Took him straight off my client list & onto my good friend list.
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In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?

My first date would depend on the personality she has. After all, you only ask someone out after chatting with them or knowing them a bit, at which point you work up the nerve to ask them out. But it also gives you a clue as to her personality and "what" would make her comfortable. And since I come from the old fashioned Cary Grant school of chivalry, I think a first date should center on showing your date a good time.

As for me -- based on my personality -- I'd start off with something fun. So, we could do something low-key like meet for drinks in a QUIET pub, the kind of place that lets you kick back and talk for hours. Or we could play pool while snacking a bit, and then use that time to talk and get to know each other better. And hopefully in the midst of this, we'd find common ground for laughing about things, since I can't date anyone without a sense of humor. I just can't. Looks can always change or be altered, but personality is forever.

But since I live in Los Angeles...for a first date...I'd probably by pass the pub thing and go for a bit more fun. Just to see how much fun she can be, too. So, I'd take her to the Santa Monica pier, which has rides and arcades and games, but also has the ocean right there which creates a nice, relaxing backdrop. Then, after spending some time strolling along and discovering my date DOES have a fun sense of humor, I'd like to shift to a lunch or dinner. I know some restaurants in that area which would be great, complete with a ocean view to again set a nice mood.

After that, we could stroll along the boardwalk or take off our shoes and walk in the warm sand, maybe even holding hands by then in an innocent and friendly "date-like" way. Ideally, we would time things right, so we could then watch the sunset over the Pacific together. Then, we'd hop in the car and shift to Hollywood Boulevard, which comes alive in the evening with all sorts of shops lit up and fun places (like wacky mini-museums) to poke your head into. We could stroll along holding hands and window shop...laughing and learning more about each other as we point things out...maybe even pop into a pub here or there if we want to sit and talk.

For a second date, I'd do something similar and fun, but upscale it a bit. This time I'd take her to Disneyland or Universal Studios or something like that, again to get out and be amongst people and to stroll along and eat here or there and just laugh and have fun by enjoying each other's company for a nice day out.

Then for the third date, ideally it would be a home-based date, where we order in some pizza or chinese and kick back and challenge each other to video games or stay up late watching bad old Sci Fi movies and cracking on them and...

HEY WAIT A MINUTE!
My dates sound like the kind of evenings Bionca has in mind!

Gee, too bad she's in a different part of the country.
Otherwise I'd have to ask her out...
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Snap!
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Actually a coffee shop was my first date with T.
He was a client then phoned up a fortnight later & suggested A costa coffee.
Chatted for ages.
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Lots of Cappuccinos with him since...
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Bionca's idea of a date is awesome.

Throw in some Doctor Who convos and i'm there , did you know that the Doctor and Martha Jones have a small cameo in a Buffy the Vampire Slayer comic.
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Bionca's idea of a date is awesome.

Throw in some Doctor Who convos and i'm there , did you know that the Doctor and Martha Jones have a small cameo in a Buffy the Vampire Slayer comic.
yeah, my brother showed me that yesterday! Pretty awesome


On topic now xD: As i have never been on a date, i will just say what i would do.

Winter, go find a nice warm pub. Drink and talk about things

Summer, Walk along the front and an icecream!
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