confused...

[fauxreal19]

so i have just recently discovered my infatuation with ladyboys. im kinda confused about whether or not im gay or bi. im pretty sure im attracted to females, but i seem to get aroused by the cock...but only when i see it on a ladyboy. i tried looking at gay porn but was completely disgusted by it. help....

[fauxreal19]

sry for the double post but i just wanted to add that i also have this strange desire to suck on cock. i dunno if this stems from watching lotsa porn, but i feel like i would really enjoy it

[cheersm8]

Originally Posted by fauxreal19

so i have just recently discovered my infatuation with ladyboys. im kinda confused about whether or not im gay or bi. im pretty sure im attracted to females, but i seem to get aroused by the cock...but only when i see it on a ladyboy. i tried looking at gay porn but was completely disgusted by it. help....

Same questions, and expected answers, get posted a zillion times onto forums of this ilk. I don't think a definitive answer will ever be found or given. However, we can not dismiss the question as unimportant, otherwise it would not be repeated with such regularity and sincerety.
If anybody with the same thoughts and/or self doubts is brave enough to actively seek a 'self assessment' on their feelings I recommend trying a couple of things. 1. remove the porn element, as this will undoubtedly cause conflicting feelings, porn is titilating, exciting, and arousing, that is porn's reason d'etre. 2. Go to a gay bar or club, test your own 'comfort zone' 3. If possible, mix, socially with a ladyboy and/or trans, and see how femeninity mixed with the ability to beat you at arm wrestling and sing with the deepest barritone voice you have ever heard, affects your feelings.

now, don't all get upset about that last statement, it is not a disrespectful jibe at transfolk generaly but it is something that many many sex-tourists on a 'mucky week in thailand' have discovered and it is 'never in the brochure'

[GRH]

Let's just say that if you have an infatuation with cock (attached to anything), you're NOT vanilla hetero.

[AmyW]

When will people understand that sexual attraction isn't just a love for someone's genitals, but love for the whole person? I'm attracted to women - to femininity - not to vaginas or penises. It's silly to take one organ of a person's body, as opposed to the rest of them, and say that they are that gender or that you are this orientation.

[GroobyKrissy]

FRESH MEAT!!! Another convert

[LesPuni]

Hmmmmm, There are great women, there are great women, and their are great people who blur that line.

I don't really feel any desire to be with a "man", I love being with women, and I definitely am very attracted to shemales.

So what am I? Just me.

[newdude]

Hey - here is something to think about I guess. My brother is gay and I hang out with him and his friends. I'm not and haven't been into his friends ever - and I can tell those guys are handsome - just not my thing.

My brother and his friends are not interested in tgirls at ALL.

I like my girl's body ALL of it so I'm probably not TOTALLY str8 and that's not a big deal anymore. I just like who I like and that's all I need.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by fauxreal19

sry for the double post but i just wanted to add that i also have this strange desire to suck on cock. i dunno if this stems from watching lotsa porn, but i feel like i would really enjoy it

Try it, you'll like it, I guarantee. Be careful 'though, cock is very addictive, once you start ou can't stop:D.

As far as the gay straight think. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

[rockabilly]

Dont worry about labels. Gay , Straight , Bi it will work out in the end ... then you can work it back in. lol

[frodek]

I like women, with or without the penis. The personality of the girl and the chemistry between us is of course the most important. It seems that I'm more and more attracted to M2F tgirls I would love to have a long term relationship with the right one.

Labels? Well people can use any label they want for me, I don't care.

[fauxreal19]

thanks for all the replies

...i guess i just need to go out and experiment a little hopefully ill figure things out