Why aren't there more female admirers of shemales?

[tlover]

For girls it almost seems fashionable to be a bisexual or lesbian theses days, many female celebrity's jumping on the bandwagon kissing other girls in public and confessing to lesbian experiences or liking girls bodies.
Many girls saying how much more beautiful and pleasing to the eye the female form is than male body.
We couldn't agree more yes?

So if this is the case how come most girls dont seem to desire shemales.
Surly the shemale is the perfect solution to the ugly male, the beautiful feminine face and the sexy curvy female form finished off with a hard throbbing, pussy pleasuring, spunk spurting cock
I mean what more could a modern girl ask for?

Mabey tgirls just aren't visible enough in the mainstream world, perhaps a spot of marketing would do the trick, then again maybe that's not a good idea, us guys could become redundant.

I reckon those girls that do know about shemales feel threatened by such well equipped beauty.

Pics from shemalesfuckgirls.com

[CuriousGirl]

Well, there's at least one female that "admires" shemales...ME!
Since the Asian ladyboy I am intimate with came into my little sexual world I'm fascinated.
So far, though, my preferences are pretty well-defined.
One, I prefer Asian.
Two, I'm more turned on by small penises than others, at least on shemales.
Three, I have a "thing" for castrated ones.
I suppose that I might be turned on by any truly cute or pretty non-Asian shemale IF "She" had a small penis and especially if there were no balls beneath it. After all, I have a VERY intact BF for straight sex and a couple of lesbian/bi gal pals to enjoy and frolic with as well.

[liesjeversteven]

And another one! Me! I still haven't had my first sexual encounter with a tgirl, and I'm not sure when or if that's ever going to happen, but I really hope so! Like CuriousGirl i'm mostly attracted to small penises when it comes to tgirls. They're so much more feminine, and as i'm normally attracted to real girls and not at all by men, I guess that makes sense. Someone like Amy would be perfect, expecially before she had breast augmentation. I don't like fake boobs in real girls, so not in tgirls either, and small breasts in real girls also really turn me on.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by CuriousGirl

Well, there's at least one female that "admires" shemales...ME!
Since the Asian ladyboy I am intimate with came into my little sexual world I'm fascinated.
So far, though, my preferences are pretty well-defined.
One, I prefer Asian.
Two, I'm more turned on by small penises than others, at least on shemales.
Three, I have a "thing" for castrated ones.
I suppose that I might be turned on by any truly cute or pretty non-Asian shemale IF "She" had a small penis and especially if there were no balls beneath it. After all, I have a VERY intact BF for straight sex and a couple of lesbian/bi gal pals to enjoy and frolic with as well.

Well its great to have some girls on the forum, you lead a very interesting sex life curious, your bf must be a very happy guy
One other thing please dont mention the "C" word again it makes us guys cringe.

[franalexes]

No! There are at least two! And I've met mine, thank you very much.
To understand why, one has to understand the female mind. That's where we stop. "not a good place to go."
Why was a gg attracted to me? Maybe because I can't stand straight guys.
I'm no expert on relationships. But while I'm here, I'm good for the ride.

[Bionca]

Odd... the majority of the Trans*women I know are lesbian/bi and tons of them are in relationships with women. I think the thing is, women generally don't hang out online lamenting their lack of trans* lovin...

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Odd... the majority of the Trans*women I know are lesbian/bi and tons of them are in relationships with women. I think the thing is, women generally don't hang out online lamenting their lack of trans* lovin...

Mmm mabey i should get out more.

Originally Posted by Bionca

Odd... the majority of the Trans*women I know are lesbian/bi and tons of them are in relationships with women. I think the thing is, women generally don't hang out online lamenting their lack of trans* lovin...

good point bionca. women definatly are more pro active than men with shit like this. we may all sit here talking about it but women if their into this kind of thing will just go out and do it.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Odd... the majority of the Trans*women I know are lesbian/bi and tons of them are in relationships with women.

I am extremely surprised to hear that, Bionca.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by rhythmic delivery

good point bionca. women definatly are more pro active than men with shit like this. we may all sit here talking about it but women if their into this kind of thing will just go out and do it.

Perhaps that's true, but if women really don't hang-out online, how on earth do they succeed in finding their partner?

I personally feel that genetic women find it hard to join a forum such as this because it's almost entirely populated by men.
On top of that, many have in my view great difficulty coming out of the closet.

[DL_NL]

There are other means than the internet to find a partner you know... I've had GFs before the '90s.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by DL_NL

There are other means than the internet to find a partner you know... I've had GFs before the '90s.

Bet you did! I don't need the internet either to find a boyfriend or even a female lover. We're talking about transsexual partners here.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by GGadmirer

Bet you did! I don't need the internet either to find a boyfriend or even a female lover. We're talking about transsexual partners here.

women are on dating sites, Or other community sites like MySpace, YouTube etc. Also it should be said that a good number of these GGs were married to their partners pre-transition.

Even for a single Trans* in bar.. a lesbian club will be safer for us to be open than a typical straight club

[tlover]

Originally Posted by GGadmirer

Perhaps that's true, but if women really don't hang-out online, how on earth do they succeed in finding their partner?

I personally feel that genetic women find it hard to join a forum such as this because it's almost entirely populated by men.
On top of that, many have in my view great difficulty coming out of the closet.

Mabey you ladys could give us guys ideas on how we could attract more "genetic girls" to the forum, point us in the right direction on what to do and not to do
I'm sure most of the guys would love to see more gg on the forum and hear there point of view on all things transsexual.

As for not coming out the closet, im dont think that is an issue here as the great thing about the internet is we can all remain anonymous if we wish, if that wasn't the case most of us guys wouldn't be on this forum sharing our love of shemales.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by tlover

Mabey you ladys could give us guys ideas on how we could attract more "genetic girls" to the forum, point us in the right direction on what to do and not to do

When confronted with the URL address of this website, most genetic women will in my view take a sudden U turn. It is just sending out the wrong signal. And so, in order to attract more GG's, a change of name must be considered.

Perhaps such a change will also cause more transsexual women to join the forum (a welcome side effect). As Melissa has already pointed out, not all m2f girls feel comfortable with the current name.

Suggestions for a new name? Well I'm not very good at that but "ThirdGender" definitely beats "TransLadyboy". Perhaps we can have a poll on the subject.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by GGadmirer

When confronted with the URL address of this website, most genetic women will in my view take a sudden U turn. It is just sending out the wrong signal. And so, in order to attract more GG's, a change of name must be considered.

Perhaps such a change will also cause more transsexual women to join the forum (a welcome side effect). As Melissa has already pointed out, not all m2f girls feel comfortable with the current name.

Suggestions for a new name? Well I'm not very good at that but "ThirdGender" definitely beats "TransLadyboy". Perhaps we can have a poll on the subject.

Ive never been very comfortable with the name transladyboy ether and i think a poll on the subject would be really interesting.
Hope you dont mind if i set one up on your behalf gg, i love a hot poll.

[ila]

Originally Posted by tlover

Ive never been very comfortable with the name transladyboy ether and i think a poll on the subject would be really interesting.
Hope you dont mind if i set one up on your behalf gg, i love a hot poll.

Before anyone gets too interested in changing the name of the site take into consideration that the domain "transladyboy.com" is registered and paid for by the owner of this site. There are also several sites that have links to this site. This is done by cooperation among all site owners concerned. Does anyone really expect the owner of this site to give up a domain name that has been paid for and then purchase a new domain name. Then there is the problem of having all links at various sites changed. Also consider the members that come here but do so infrequently. How do you expect them to find the new site? It's possible to have a redirect to a new site, but the redirect doesn't go on forever and there is a cost associated with that. In conclusion consider the cost and problems a new domain name would cost before deciding that you want a new name for this site.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by ila

Before anyone gets too interested in changing the name of the site take into consideration that the domain "transladyboy.com" is registered and paid for by the owner of this site. There are also several sites that have links to this site. This is done by cooperation among all site owners concerned. Does anyone really expect the owner of this site to give up a domain name that has been paid for and then purchase a new domain name. Then there is the problem of having all links at various sites changed. Also consider the members that come here but do so infrequently. How do you expect them to find the new site? It's possible to have a redirect to a new site, but the redirect doesn't go on forever and there is a cost associated with that. In conclusion consider the cost and problems a new domain name would cost before deciding that you want a new name for this site.

I knew this would cause big trouble.
You let a woman have her say and all hell breaks loose, typical! look at the mess you made now ggadmirer

Ila i think most of us know it would be virtually impossible to change the name of the site now, its so well established as transladyboy and no doubt alot of people like the name but some clearly dont.
I just thought it would be interesting to hear peoples thoughts on the name of our site, who likes it and who doesn't, who would change it if possible and what to, its just interesting to hear the various views.
Im not exactly what you would call politically correct (i hate that word) but i can see where ggamidmirer is comming from.
I dont think the title transladyboy accurately reflects the love and respect a lot of people on this forum feel for the "third sex" and a lot of the ladys and transgender girls might be put off by it and its such a shame more girls and tgirls aren't on the forum.
Having said that what would you replace it with.
Its just so difficult to know the right words to use when talking about transsexuals without offending someone and its too late anyway.
I think most things about this site are just right, we've got a great little community, lots of friendly tlovers, great pics and posts and very little bickering and bitching that you see on alot of other forums but the title ive always been a little uneasy about, then ive never really liked the phrase ladyboy (even though i do use it occasionally) as its used as a derogatory remark alot of the time.
Still nothing perfect.

Mabey we should have a poll on whether its a good idea to have a poll on changing the site name

Oh dear! I think our leader shemale sex lover is going to be livid with me
Sorry oh great one

[franalexes]

Gee! a little pissed at Ila are we? He does do his job here for free you know.
This site IS different. I can't explain it . But I do think that a more female acceptable site would not be prone to attract all the "porno" pic's of ladyboys.
Kind of like "you don't buy lobster at Kentucky Fried Chicken". While it is nice to see all three sexes here, this site is not overly agressive to accomplish that. Not well said perhaps but I hope I made my point.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Gee! a little pissed at Ila are we? He does do his job here for free you know.
This site IS different. I can't explain it . But I do think that a more female acceptable site would not be prone to attract all the "porno" pic's of ladyboys.
Kind of like "you don't buy lobster at Kentucky Fried Chicken". While it is nice to see all three sexes here, this site is not overly agressive to accomplish that. Not well said perhaps but I hope I made my point.

Fran im not at all pissed with ila, we've been friends a long time so im sure he knows im not pissed with him
I can not understand how you thought I came across like that and i do know he dose this job here for free, he is much appreciated.

I was just saying I thought ggadmires idea of a poll about our name would be interesting and it would be good to hear peoples views, as in - dose it put girls and transsexuals off joining our forum.
Just hearing and looking at ways to attract more tgirls and girls is surely no bad thing?


Maybe its best just to forget all this and stick with the original question - why aren't there more female admirers of shemales?

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by tlover

I knew this would cause big trouble.
You let a woman have her say and all hell breaks loose, typical! look at the mess you made now ggadmirer

Not nice to put all the blame on me, tlover. It was after all your request I was responding to.

Seriously, I know that it's not easy to change the name of this site and I do not have any high hopes in that direction. I was merely voicing my honest opinion. Hope I haven't really upset anyone.

[TLlovergirl]

I personally love shemales! I would love to be with one. I totally agree with what you said- all the beauty of a woman (im also bisexual) plus the amazing, pleasure-giving power of a cock?! amazing. i personally found this site through a google search for fake pics of female celebs as shemales. so so so many orgasms

[conkilla13]

Originally Posted by CuriousGirl

Well, there's at least one female that "admires" shemales...ME!
Since the Asian ladyboy I am intimate with came into my little sexual world I'm fascinated.
So far, though, my preferences are pretty well-defined.
One, I prefer Asian.
Two, I'm more turned on by small penises than others, at least on shemales.
Three, I have a "thing" for castrated ones.
I suppose that I might be turned on by any truly cute or pretty non-Asian shemale IF "She" had a small penis and especially if there were no balls beneath it. After all, I have a VERY intact BF for straight sex and a couple of lesbian/bi gal pals to enjoy and frolic with as well.

well im asian i love to do it with u sometime let me know.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by tlover

For girls it almost seems fashionable to be a bisexual or lesbian theses days, many female celebrity's jumping on the bandwagon kissing other girls in public and confessing to lesbian experiences or liking girls bodies.
Many girls saying how much more beautiful and pleasing to the eye the female form is than male body.
We couldn't agree more yes?

So if this is the case how come most girls dont seem to desire shemales.
Surly the shemale is the perfect solution to the ugly male, the beautiful feminine face and the sexy curvy female form finished off with a hard throbbing, pussy pleasuring, spunk spurting cock
I mean what more could a modern girl ask for?

Mabey tgirls just aren't visible enough in the mainstream world, perhaps a spot of marketing would do the trick, then again maybe that's not a good idea, us guys could become redundant.

I reckon those girls that do know about shemales feel threatened by such well equipped beauty.

Pics from shemalesfuckgirls.com

This is, indeed, an interesting question, and I can only speculate... I would guess that the percentage of gay women is quite a bit smaller than gay men. At least openly - and at least here in Asia. And for a woman to be attracted to a trans*woman she'd probably have to be rather gay (as opposed to men attracted to trans*women - they are probably never gay).

Also, there could be some stigma regarding the non-op trans*woman's sexual organs. Call it a hunch and I may certainly be grossly wrong toward lesbians here, but my gut-feeling is that quite a few lesbians tend to have sort of a grudge against men. Much more so than gay-men tend to have against women. It's just a bit more "political" somehow.

I really have never seen a cis*woman with a real woman... or should I for clarification say that I've never seen a cis*woman with a trans*woman - I doubt I ever will.

The few lesbians I know find my attraction to trans*woman slightly curious, and I'm certain that they think (without saying it) that I'm probably just a closeted gay who really yearn for a "real man" with a 34 inch machine dick and a giant beard...

I do know, however, that many more trans*women in the West are sexually attracted to women than is the case here in Asia. So for many Western trans*women it must be doubly frustrating, I reckon.

Gender identification may have little to do with sexual orientation... but it would certainly seem that sexual orientation has EVERYTHING to do with (your partner's) gender identification... :-)

H

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by conkilla13

well im asian i love to do it with u sometime let me know.

Just watch ur balls, baby... ;-)

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

This is, indeed, an interesting question, and I can only speculate... I would guess that the percentage of gay women is quite a bit smaller than gay men. At least openly - and at least here in Asia. And for a woman to be attracted to a trans*woman she'd probably have to be rather gay (as opposed to men attracted to trans*women - they are probably never gay).

Also, there could be some stigma regarding the non-op trans*woman's sexual organs. Call it a hunch and I may certainly be grossly wrong toward lesbians here, but my gut-feeling is that quite a few lesbians tend to have sort of a grudge against men. Much more so than gay-men tend to have against women. It's just a bit more "political" somehow.

I really have never seen a cis*woman with a real woman... or should I for clarification say that I've never seen a cis*woman with a trans*woman - I doubt I ever will.

The few lesbians I know find my attraction to trans*woman slightly curious, and I'm certain that they think (without saying it) that I'm probably just a closeted gay who really yearn for a "real man" with a 34 inch machine dick and a giant beard...

I do know, however, that many more trans*women in the West are sexually attracted to women than is the case here in Asia. So for many Western trans*women it must be doubly frustrating, I reckon.

Gender identification may have little to do with sexual orientation... but it would certainly seem that sexual orientation has EVERYTHING to do with (your partner's) gender identification... :-)

H

I've been a part of lesbian/dyke/queer community for the past decade or so, and I've had my ups and downs. Honestly, I'd say that most of my issues were with myself (that is they were my issues with my body that I was projecting onto the women around me). Now I hang out with alot of kinky dykes, and I get plenty of loving, and my partner is also a woman. Basically I'm a part of the dyke community, and there are plenty of gay women who accept that I'm more than a cock and tits.

I think many trans women feel uncomfortable around women, and tend to attribute malicious attitudes that are often times non-existent.