Would you stay with your Tgirl girlfriend if she went back to being a man?

[cumshooter69]

Say you were in a relationship for 5 years with a beautiful tgirl and the relationship was amazing. One day she decides to revert back to being a man. Do you stay with her or leave her?

My personal answer would be: I would stay becuase it's the person you fell in love with and not just the femine look. It may cause problems for you with some of your friends or family but if you really love that person how can you just throw her away. I would still be proud to be her/his boyfriend regardless.

[aussiepride]

ahah great question.

after i was with my ts gf for a while i saw pics of her from when she was a boy, and when she started transitioning.

i told her a while back, and to be honest to me its makes a difference what she looks like.
when i saw pics of her with short hair and boy clothes i was not attracted to her.. shallow or whatever u call it, but to me, yes i am attracted to a person who looks like a girl. before she transitioned she just looked a typical gay asian male... which is not what i am into.


if i met her as a boy.. same personality and all... i would not want to date her.
but same personality.. as a girl.. i am in love..

now you ques is.. what would i do if after a number of years she changed back (which does happes to some ts!)... well to be honest i do not know.
i would not stop being with her because people would start seeing us a gay relationship, and hence me gay.. but i would look at her and think.. am i still sexually attracted to this person?
all i told her was whatever path she decided to go down was her own choosing, and not to be influenced by me or anyone else.

[cumshooter69]

That would be the biggest issue with some people, that now you'd be seen as being in a gay relationship. For me after having sex on a regular basis with this person for 5 years, why would it matter? The sex and the relationship wouldn't be any different, just her look. So for me i'd stay.

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by cumshooter69

Say you were in a relationship for 5 years with a beautiful tgirl and the relationship was amazing. One day she decides to revert back to being a man. Do you stay with her or leave her?

Now that i took a few minutes thinking 'bout the pros and cons of such a situation, my reply is a resounding YES, i stay!! And if dealing with the neighbors' homophobia becomes too much of a burden, we can always move...

To aussiepride: i've seen quite a few long-haired, young-looking "typical gay asian males" that have turned me on a lot over the years... Sadly, it seems the real cutest ones are not interested in doing porn; just mildly erotic (and rather forgettable) photosets

[JodieTs]

I asked my man this. He said yes, totally.
(I'd never want to de-transition, but I was curious; always good to poke hubby for a reaction )
I also asked another friend. He said the same as my man, he'd definitely stay in the relationship, just that it would be a gay male relationship.
He didn't get to stay in any relationship though, as she died last year crashing her motorbike.
One year and a couple of days ago. Fuck, I miss her so much too.

[franalexes]

A guy becomes a girl and then goes back?

Well, what's it going to be? They do a lot these days with super-glue, duct tape and staples.

[Wendy Summers]

Funny this has ben posed... a few days ago I learned one of my exes, who was a pre-op TS while we dated, detransitioned. Had he decided that while we were together I would have supported it... right until the bastard pulled the BS that ended the relationship.

Originally Posted by cumshooter69

Say you were in a relationship for 5 years with a beautiful tgirl and the relationship was amazing. One day she decides to revert back to being a man. Do you stay with her or leave her?

Stay. Yes. Of course. It sounds like we are talking about someone who is your partner and soulmate. I?m also assuming that this would be something that the two of us had talked about beforehand and an experience we would share together if we were truly that intimate. You love this person. Why wouldn?t you stay with them?

[hammerofgods]

I'm not sure what would I do in this situation, but I guess you have to live it through to know that. But to answer your question for now I wouldn't stay with him.

[guiltydreamer]

No I would not.

[Cocksucker]

If her were very fem/girlish yes 4 sure.

[NaughtyLittleLover]

If the relationship lasted that long there's no way i would just throw it away. I dont blame anyone who would thou. Looks are very important in some relationships.

[optimusmike123]

how about this one, you are with your partner for x amount of years (girl or boy either one, doesnt matter) and they want a sex change into the opposite sex, what would you do? does being with a girl that changes to man make you gay and would you stay or your husband changing into a woman.

i ask this as in the news thread there is something about the lead singer of "against me!!" getting a sex change and his wife is staying with him. i would assume that down the years they have been together she wouldve knew something about it but wen it actually happens it must but a difficuly situation to be in for both you and your partner.

[cumshooter69]

I would stay because you are in love with person, it has nothing to do with gender.

[aussiepride]

Originally Posted by cumshooter69

I would stay because you are in love with person, it has nothing to do with gender.

Not really gender but attraction.
Ok so I know a lot of people on here would be married or have gg gfs.
Same ques, if they become female to male transgender, would u stay?

[josejaxon]

No, I will not and never be with her because I am a guy who like to sex with girl not with others so I will never stay anymore with her what ever she is but I will except her the way she is. So these are my views for staying with tgirl.

[Smoothie]

Tough question. With all due respect and I'm sure with love you would be compelled to stay, but the change in gender also can and most likely will cause a loss in attraction.

I can admire those that stay, but also respect a decision to end the relationship. This doesn't mean that you have to become enemies, but you can never ask your partner to change their sexual desires completely. That's like asking a square to be a circle, or a pie to be a pot roast. Straight men that are attracted to transgendered women view TG women as women. Those same men are of course not attracted to other men.

On a transgender board such as this, I feel it's best to disclose all transitional aspirations with your partner so that everyone understands how each other feels, and where they see themselves in the future.

[littletwink]

Originally Posted by Smoothie

Tough question. With all due respect and I'm sure with love you would be compelled to stay, but the change in gender also can and most likely will cause a loss in attraction.

I can admire those that stay, but also respect a decision to end the relationship. This doesn't mean that you have to become enemies, but you can never ask your partner to change their sexual desires completely. That's like asking a square to be a circle, or a pie to be a pot roast. Straight men that are attracted to transgendered women view TG women as women. Those same men are of course not attracted to other men.

On a transgender board such as this, I feel it's best to disclose all transitional aspirations with your partner so that everyone understands how each other feels, and where they see themselves in the future.

+1

People change all the time and they are allowed to do so. That doesn't mean that they have to stay together. Compromising can be good, but no one has to accept compromise on everything. If you fall in love with a woman and then the woman decides to become a man again, there is nothing wrong with ending the romantic relationship because of the change.

I would still be friends with the person he wanted to be, but the physical part of our relationship would be over.

If I had an ongoing relationship with a part time CD that would be a little different since he becomes a she for role play purposes and that is the basis of our relationship. In other words I can date a transvestite when she's dressing, but not when he or she is not.

[Be_my_nude]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

I asked my man this. He said yes, totally.
(I'd never want to de-transition, but I was curious; always good to poke hubby for a reaction :
I also asked another friend. He said the same as my man, he'd definitely stay in the relationship, just that it would be a gay male relationship.
He didn't get to stay in any relationship though, as she died last year crashing her motorbike.
One year and a couple of days ago. Fuck, I miss her so much too.

I can't for the life of me imagine why any woman would want to change sex - once experienced, never surpassed !

Though I'm not really qualified to judge, I think it's no coincidence that so many men want to experience femininity firsthand by transitioning.
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But, to return to the point of this thread. I reckon any man worth his salt would go with the love that he carries for his partner and not support her through her reversal, but offer him the physical love he will still need once he has healed up.

Of course there will always be individuals who will get cold feet and exit the relationship, but this has always been the case, just as there are individual males who will flee as soon as they fully realise the implications of getting emotionally involved with a ladyboy

[siennagrace69]

Of course---she could still fuck me and I could still suck her cock, right ?

[sorcisto]

If I love her (and I presume I do since it's my girlfriend) I would stay with her/him.