Should i even bother dating shemales & ladyboys when I'm still a virgin & I have a small penis

[lordscott]

Since i can't fit the entire question in the title i admit sometimes i wonder should i even bother dating a beautiful shemale/ladyboy like her before you jump my throat please stop right because I'm not hung up on my size i admit I'm a bit nervous of dating her because sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy to be with her if she acts like or if she shows that she likes me & this question I'm only asking ahead of time.

I mean I'm a virgin period and if you want to know more I'm a 28 year old virgin single man & just in case you don't know I'll be 29 on December 28th and i admit I'm cursed that i have a small penis and before you asked me no no my size is not a micropenis but however still i still considered myself small & i apologize shemales & ladyboys if you beautiful women think I'm lacking self-confidence it's just that I'm nervous & starting to wonder should i even bother dating her or do her the favor and tell her the truth that sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy to be with her & my curse & that I'm a virgin stuff like that.

Sorry if this question sounds dumb or stupid and those of you have same cursed as me you'll understand about me being nervous that's why I'm asking ahead Should i even bother dating shemales & ladyboys when I'm still a virgin & I"m cursed that i have a small penis?

I mean if she acts like wants to take our relationship to the next level &/or if she wants to return the favor after i gave her a bj,handjob or both after giving her oral so to speak i might stop her from touching me or ask her to please stop and explain I'm cursed & explain my small penis especially if she is bigger then me or if she's more hung then me sorry if i sound like I'm down when I'm not it's more like I'm nervous of dating her if she ever does acts like or if she shows that she likes me & to end it here before it gets way too long & before you think i will break her heart for those assholes pardon my language don't worry i will never break her heart & i will never will break her heart to make those assholes happy.

& if you want to ask me anything else about this topic or anything else you want to know please feel free to ask me through here or PM me your questions whichever you prefer and if i choose to & of course if i have answers or anything like that I'll do my best and try answer the best i can like i said if i choose to answer your questions & when i can thanks,thanks for reading,thanks for your understanding,thanks for your time and if you have any advice then thanks for your advice ahead of time .

[a9127]

Originally Posted by lordscott

I'm a bit nervous of dating her because sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy to be with her if she acts like or if she shows that she likes me & this question I'm only asking ahead of time.

I mean I'm a virgin period and if you want to know more I'm a 28 year old virgin single man & just in case you don't know I'll be 29 on December 28th and i admit I'm cursed that i have a small penis and before you asked me no no my size is not a micropenis but however still i still considered myself small & i apologize shemales & ladyboys if you beautiful women think I'm lacking self-confidence it's just that I'm nervous & starting to wonder should i even bother dating her or do her the favor and tell her the truth that sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy to be with her & my curse & that I'm a virgin stuff like that.

I can't answer for everyone but the advice I offered back in August still applies:

Originally Posted by a9127

Don’t forget all of us were virgins once and most of us were at least a little nervous the first time. The most important thing is how you two feel about each other. Do you like this girl? Does she like you? Do you have a good time together? Have you kissed her or “made out”? How did it go? Everything else will take care of itself--trust me on this! The porn industry has given people a distorted view of sexuality. It’s not real and of course EVERY performer has at least a 7” cock and cums buckets. While it can make for fun entertainment and healthy fantasy. It can also make almost anyone feel inadequate or have unrealistic expectations. Especially if they have never had sex.

So relax, have fun with your friend and when the time is right, you’ll both know it!

Hope this makes you feel better!

Andy

[JamieTS]

Just like my title says. Hell most women cis or trans drool over Buck Angel. He has no penis. He has a vagina.

A woman doesn't care about the size of your cock. We care about how well you treat us and so on. We want to feel like we are totally safe with you and can totally be ourselves with you.

So yes. You should bother dating. Yes some women may say something but don't worry about though because to most women your size is not important, your personality is. Making us laugh and feel beautiful is way more important than your size. Make us feel safe is again, way more important than size.

OK. To most women cis or trans it isn't the cock that makes the man but rather the man that makes the cock. So don't judge yourself by your size but rather be the best man you can be. That is what really matters.

But seriously if a woman is so concerned about the size of your cock then maybe she is way too obsessed about one particular aspect and not the total you.

[Ladyboy_Lover]

Originally Posted by JamieTS

Just like my title says. Hell most women cis or trans drool over Buck Angel. He has no penis. He has a vagina.

A woman doesn't care about the size of your cock. We care about how well you treat us and so on. We want to feel like we are totally safe with you and can totally be ourselves with you.

So yes. You should bother dating. Yes some women may say something but don't worry about though because to most women your size is not important, your personality is. Making us laugh and feel beautiful is way more important than your size. Make us feel safe is again, way more important than size.

OK. To most women cis or trans it isn't the cock that makes the man but rather the man that makes the cock. So don't judge yourself by your size but rather be the best man you can be. That is what really matters.

But seriously if a woman is so concerned about the size of your cock then maybe she is way too obsessed about one particular aspect and not the total you.

Great post, thank you

[girish]

If you have a small penis, it's great as LBs will love you with a small penis.

I am sure they would love to whack your ass for a small penis and make it hard so that your little one can do in without hurting them.

If you are virgin, better, they would love to fuck your brains out of you.

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by girish

If you have a small penis, it's great as LBs will love you with a small penis.

I am sure they would love to whack your ass for a small penis and make it hard so that your little one can do in without hurting them.

If you are virgin, better, they would love to fuck your brains out of you.

OH yeah a big one really hurts so a really good lube is a must. Preferably water based and don't skimp on the price. Don't even think of fucking with Vaseline.

That last part though I don't quite understand. I am bottom so I would rather the guy screw my brains out plus mine don't stay hard enough to do anything.

But seriously though. Anything bigger than 6 inches kind of hurts. The bigger the more it hurts in length and girth. The better the lube the bigger it can be in length and girth but, at first it has to go really slow and a little at a time. So do her a favor and lube her up with your fingers, one then two, then three and then four as far as she can take it. It may get hot and you may be really turned on but don't be like a rabbit. It may take five minutes working from the tip of the head to the base a little at a time.

Seriously though, no matter how big you are, go to the nearest sex shop and buy a really good water based anal lube. Leave the Vaseline alone and don't go think KY will be good enough. The higher quality lube the more enjoyable both of your experiences will be. OMG Vaseline is a big no no. It takes so much to wash off and do you really want her ass and your cock to smell like Vaseline? Ughh.