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Why we like shemales
Ive heard a lot of crap about this attraction to shemales being a way for self-deluded gay men to come to terms with their sexuality without admitting to themselves that they're gay
Most actual gay men Ive met aren't into shemales at all so I know there is something way off about this theory. And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction So my theory is that the attraction is purely hetero. Most of us like the more feminine features and I see this expressed again and again. Its just that when you put a penis on what looks like a hot woman you feel like you intuitively understand her body better. She feels like you do. Of course this is all man made, so its kind of a big delusion, but what a glorious delusion it is. God Bless the Twenty-First Century Anyways thats my theory. Does anyone else have some? |
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Hmm I never thought about transexualism in nature before. I know that some animals are gay. I think I agree with the thrust of your argument. Another point is we do it because we have the choice , we are sentient beings and its a higher state of consciousness. Lots of us, myself for example cant go all the way and are not into being with gays no matter how open to it we are. These are limits which are hard wired into us but to put no self imposed limits on who you can love or be with is an advanced higher state of consciousness in my opinion.
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to caligula: mabe you got right
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Ive heard a lot of crap about this attraction to shemales being a way for self-deluded gay men to come to terms with their sexuality without admitting to themselves that they're gay
Most actual gay men Ive met aren't into shemales at all so I know there is something way off about this theory. And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction So my theory is that the attraction is purely hetero. Most of us like the more feminine features and I see this expressed again and again. Its just that when you put a penis on what looks like a hot woman you feel like you intuitively understand her body better. She feels like you do. Of course this is all man made, so its kind of a big delusion, but what a glorious delusion it is. God Bless the Twenty-First Century Anyways thats my theory. Does anyone else have some? for me is the lingerie show..I allways had an fetish about blonds, stayups, deep red lipstick etc...all my x-girls didnt have that fetish...m abe little..but not what I wanted. when you see ladyboys they work hard to be a lady inkluded clothes, shoes makup and evrythingt..no girls in Norway I`ve meet have that fetish..thats why I turned to ladyboys..that got it ALL. |
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As modern medicine has identified diseases today from what was considered “Pox” in the Sixteenth Century, technology/research in the Twenty-First Century allows the distinction between gay men, transsexuals and cross-dressers to be made. I also suspect that men that strongly desired transsexuals would search these relationships. Unfortunately not so, long ago opportunities to explore these desires would have been almost non-existent due to unjust laws defining them as “socially unacceptable”. The result would have been that these relationships would have been “extremely underground”. For the majority (me included as I only discovered my desires on a chance meeting) the joys of transsexual’s relationships would have been a mystery. The opportunity for “self enlightenment” would have been absent. I’m not sure whether it is hetro or gay and “quite frankly my dear I don’t give a damn”. All I know is that I like the personalities and appearance of genetic women but I find them sexually unfulfilling and it is very difficult to “cum. On the other hand went I “bed” a shemale, I almost premature ejaculate and definitely “shoot a bigger load”. |
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With shemales, I’ll go with the “best of both worlds� theory. However, the combination of both masculine and feminine, to my mind, creates something more beautiful than men or women. I find shemales / ladyboys to be more beautiful than women, and for me that’s the attraction.
I would not say that I am gay or hetero, but would say that I am attracted to this third sex. By the by, do read Cal Y Pygia essay, “Shemales: An Appreciation.� Cham
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I have always liked being penetrated anally, but, I don't want it done by a guy. I have asked my wife to stick her finger up my ass she doesn't want to. We have used anal beads but that didn't do it. The thought of a strap on does not appeal to her or me really. So about a month ago I discovered Eros and had my first that I documented my feeling about on this very site. I'm not that much into the cock sucking but do it because it pleases her. Transexuals are NOT guys (gays), they are women stuck with a penis. I wish I had discovered this lifestyle 10 yrs ago before I got married.
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Why I like Shemales
I like shemales because they are so feminine. The majority are more beautiful than gg's. They also have cocks which for me only increases my attraction. Every time I see a shemale I want to know what her cock feels like (unlike when I see men I have no interest in their cocks).
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The strange thing is, that I dont care about the cocks of men, but I'm just crazy about the shemale cock! Somehow they look feminine and beautiful, and sweet. Shemales also like nice stockings, panties, lace stuff, witch you dont see on regular porn often these days.
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I agree...
And would like to second the fact that an attraction to shemale is not an indication that you're gay, not that I have anything against those who are however I know that my attraction to shemales is more due to the fact that they're feminine in look and actions.
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T-girls go out of their way to dress and act feminine. They have picked up what genetic women have dropped. |
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I have been told that by several gay guys Iknow, but the thing is I don't get turne on by guys, I like girls and girlie boys and the boys must always be dressed to turn me on, after all a naked trannie is just a guy...........a naked tg or now, thats different
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id agree with that too. |
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I love them because I've been crossdressing since I was 11-12 and when I learned about shemales at 16, I saw that my dream of being a pretty girl was possible. Seeing a sexy shemale getting fucked makes me horny because I can imagine that I'm the one getting fucked.
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Now that's hot...
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For me, and I am hetero - gay porn doesn't turn me on at all -, it has to be a shemale with a unambiguous feminin face. I have to *believe* it's a woman I think. And then seeing a dick plus perhaps wonderful breasts is maybe simply getting the best of both worlds? Also with a shemale you as man can be passive part, should be interesting to explore. Especially if you like your anus when playing with yourself. :-) Or is it the total lack of gymnastic talent why I am visualizing to lick a dick between legs of another person (woman)?
If I had a wish free I clearly would prefer a beautiful ladyboy to an otherwise equally attractive 'normal' woman. I don't know what it is, but it is very addictive. So far only in my imagination but who knows ... I can't imagine a world without shemales anymore. The best about it would be missing! |
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Don't know exactly...there's something kinky in it, I guess...
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For me, I guess it's because I envy parts that I don't have. As a male, I don't have any large body parts, such as penis, chest, hands, feet, except maybe my butt.
Sometimes I look at a guy, but it's not because I like him, but because of parts that he has. I love big breasts, and big nipples. I was lucky enough to be with a naturally big breasted girl. You don't really notice a man's chest or nipples because it's not large to begin with and all males have them. But you noticed them on a shemale. Whether it's enhanced or not, it's still noticeable. But besides that it's also the shaved legs, and facial hair. I hate hair except on top of a person's head. |
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Yes, the only place for hair.
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Attraction towards shemales is not at all gayish. Its what they call it as gay curious. After all its the feminine features of a shemale that we are attracted towards and not the masculine features....So enjoy watching shemales and happy jerking.....
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Transsexualism does actually occur in nature. There are various species of fish and reptiles that we know will change sex depending on environmental factors.
Also, it seems a primary focus of men who are attracted to gals like me to first question and then go to great length to deny being gay. My first thought is.. does it matter? Then I realize that having someone else chose something as important as ones identity stinks. It doesn't matter if that is relating to gender or sexual orientation. Being incorrectly classified and treated differently because of that mistake hurts, is dangerous, and is generally confusing. From my perspective, and I'd wager that of any trans* person, is that I have already sorted that stuff out. I have already heard it, seen it, ran from it and finally embraced it. It's like a Physist helping their young child struggle with addition, it's hard to remember this being difficult. If fear of being mis-labeled as gay for liking a trans* woman is THAT big of a deal, then you may want to think long and hard about how real your attraction is. Think about how real your fantasy of meeting and being with a TG really is. If you really couldn't handle being called "fag" if someone clocks your girlie, perhaps this is best left to the realm of porn/fantasy. You see, I hate being braver than the men I date. |
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bump
interesting,
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For me it is simple. I am a bottom but I love the look of a beautiful woman, The Tgirl gives me the allure of the woman and the cock I need to be a bottom.
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How about my Feminine Side ?
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So how about the feminine side of me. Do I stray into lesbian desires if the feminine part of me appreciates that same beauty ? Come to that my wife thinks that many of the m2f transgenders on this site are quite exquisite - so does that make her bisexual ? ( which she certainly isn't ). Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ( or so they say ). Does Ladyboy Amy cease to be beautiful because I don't like the look of her penis ? If it comes to that, hey, there are some m2f transgenders that visually take my breath away without giving me a hard-on. It all comes down to taste in the end ( no pun intended ). Having said all that, there's nothing like a bit of fantasizing . . . Oh yeah
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I believe the problem comes from how we define Gay, Straight, Bisexual, etc. I feel a lot of these notions are outdated and hardly representative of the complexity of sexuality and gender identity. Firstly I view sexuality in terms of two key attributes, the feminine and the masculine. For instance a muscled hair chest would be considered a predominantly masculine trait, while thin hands would be considered feminine (but of course a lot of these are up for debate).
Next in terms of one's sexual identity I don't see individuals as purely gay or straight, I see it as a sort of attraction percentage. So a stereotypical "straight" person might actually be like 80% attracted to feminine traits, but have a subtle 20% attraction to the masculine side of things. On the flip side a gay individual simply has these ratios reversed. I theorize that individuals such as ourselves have an attraction to masculine traits that are greater than usual 20%. And remember even within this subset there are gradients. Now for some examples: And don't worry about the numbers here folks im just spit balling to make a point. Notice fans of only Bailey Jay (see examples below) most likely fall closer to a 70/30 split (70% feminine attraction, 30% masculine attraction) while someone who is a fan of say Danni Daniels as well is more of a 60/40 split. For Bailey Jay exclusive fans, Danni Daniels is far too "gay" for them. But what they really are trying to say is that their personal sexuality percentage does not reach that particular level in terms of masculine attraction. I feel this notion also applies to gender identity (though I doubt if there is a tangible connection between the two). Thoughts? |
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I agree that the masculine/feminine attraction is on a continuum. I also think it's pretty fluid for me on the feminine attraction side. I like ultra feminine women and women with masculine traits. Sometimes they overlap like these two. The first is drag queen Tatiana and the second in female porn star Shay Fox.
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I love Shay Fox. Skinny, average, fit etc. As long as the body is feminine, I'm happy. A guy or transsexual can never be too feminine but I think some women can be way too masculine like those body builder types. Anyway, I like shemales because I'm bi-sexual.
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I agree, a woman can't be too feminine but I really strong, Amazon type women!
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Shemale escorts say that most of their clients are straight or bi men.
Why I like shemales/ladyboys? I dunno but they look like a real women with little "extra" for me. That`s why I prefer feminine shemales or teen-like ladyboys with small breast. Most of the time I want to be a leading partner. I like their smooth skin, perfume. And they really know how to satisfy man As much as I rember I`ve always liked anal stimulation, being penetrated anally with dildos etc. I`ve been penetrated with strap-on but this wasn`t my cup of tea. This strap-on was not flexible, big and it really hurt. I like when woman sticks her finger up my ass when she gives me a blow-job or when we have sex. Sometimes I use my Aneros for that. This doubles me the pleasure. I have many dildos, butt-plugs and anal vibes and I use them when I masturbate. But I don`t like an idea having sex with natural man. Hairy legs-arms, muscles and so on is total turn-off for me. I can`t imagine having sex with male but I like shemales and I take shecocks up my ass with pleasure. So I am bi-curious, I guess Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket are just paradises for me. Millions of tgirls with slim body, small tits, sexy outfits. They actually look way better than real girls In Thailand I like to be more active, because ladyboys have small cocks. Best for the beginners. |
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Long before I was a member here, and still trying to “sort things out,” these were two of the posts in this thread that helped me better understand and accept my own feelings. So I would like to give them a “bump” if you will…
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For me the attraction isn't that they have a penis at all. I'm attracted the femininity, in a big way. The more feminine, the bigger my attraction to them. It seems like most genetic women have forgotten how to be feminine, so I have no problem turning somewhere else for it.
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Higher sex drive
I think part of my attraction to transexuals is that I perceive them having a higher sex drive - since they were originally male.
Listening to Bailey Jay's podcast, she has a high sex drive - she cums many times a day. I would love to be with someone who wants sex as much as I do. |
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I have posted often about my feelings regarding this issue and my own past experiences (including as "aw9725"), so no need to repeat.
But I ask "How could you NOT fall in love with any of these beautiful women?" Last edited by a9127; 07-06-2015 at 11:02 AM. |
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