There could be a lot of variables. The first thing, it's good that you call them TS ladies instead of ladyboys, shemales, etc. Usually saying one of those words will you get on the blacklist, lol.
I used to frequent a TS dating chatroom. A lot felt as though the men were stupid, only wanting one thing, merely things to toy with online, etc. and didn't take the whole online dating thing seriously. My real life friend is like this, and she's a tgirl too. She'll first ask for a picture right off the bat, and if she doesn't like it, she moves on. Shallow, huh? She feels she's above the men who try to talk to her.
There were a couple escorts in the chat room too, and distance didn't matter, but they got men to pay for trips, phone calls, etc. Most of them were pretty crazy in the head, and if you disagreed with anything they said, they'd go on a total tangent the whole night, calling their johns-in-waiting and actually talk about the chat room on the phone with them while the webcam was running. I wouldn't waste my time on any of them if I were you. If you're wanting more than just sex talk (or hearing their money woes), which it sounds like you do, avoid them.
Tgirls have had it rough. It's no excuse, but we don't take bullshit very lightly, and that's what a lot of men online only have to offer. The rude ones are by no means representative of all of us. Everyone has their bad days.
Oh, and if it makes any difference - I met my current love interest in a chatroom online. No surprise, we fought a lot before cuz he wasn't putting up with my dismissive attitude (I wasn't really putting faith in the whole online love thing at the time). Needless to say his persistance grew on me and we're pretty much in love now.
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