[johndowe]

Hi there.

In order to accomplish accomplish something you have to do something, you seem to be a strong person, morally and intellectually, although a bit rash at times, which isn't alwasy a bad thing.

Did you see the movie "Milk", (i haven't) but i hear the main character was a young gay man who wanted gays to be recognized as a minority, he started his political career in his late twenties, and got elected in his late forties, it took him 20 years to get to the point where he could do something, he was of the ultra gay type, and still he overcame and won in the end, he didn't quit when the going got a little rough, he took his lumps and persevered, quitter do not accomplish anything.

So Bionca, ARE YOU A QUITTER?

So you have to repeat youself over and over, big deal a waist of a bit of spit, or a few keystrokes on your keyboard, if that little effort is too much for you then by all means quit, you don't have the guts to even try to change the situation even here where averybody is pro tg in a porn type of view, but still pro tg.

But i don't think you are that weak, you may be facing some personnal problems, but then who doesn't, the Bionca i have read so far is far more of a fighter than a quitter, she speaks her mind, so where is that Bionca that i have come to "know" and respect? Even if i don't always agree with her views.

Before i read your post in my "Post op reason" thread i was a bit more ignorant about trans related problems, you showed me a side i had never tought of or imagined, ok i did start that thread to learn more about t-girls and i did, i had an open mind, but others read your ansewer and the other's and some don't objectify tg as much, it may not be that much, but it IS something, a start, a small step, but then, even the longest trip starts with one step.

It is your choice to quit or not to quit, but i don't think you should.

If you choose to stick around, remember that you do attract more flies with honey than vinegar.

JohnDowe.