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Originally Posted by CCC
Ila Could you please list out all the acceptable and the not acceptable names.
People walk around in here on egg shells.
Example: shemales yes or no the title about is "chat About Shemales"
Thanks
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I know it gets confusing. Hell I'm a fucking trans woman and still hurt feeling sometimes.
People are people and it all depends on who you are talking too as to how many eggs you have to break to walk on those eggshells. Some are way overly sensitive but first and foremost be respectful. You can call me whatever you want to. Tranny, Shemale, Chick with a Dick, or whatever else. But as long as it is innocent then no probs. If it is said with malice then it becomes a problem to me. I cut guys a lot of slack because number one if you are watching shemale porn then you are somewhat attracted to us and I find that totally adorable. In certain parts of the world it has to remain hidden and you could possibly be killed if being transgender.
Look I came here and love it here. Some trans women may come here and find it insulting but to them I ask what do most men get the realization that trans women are beautiful and can fulfill a lot more fantasies than some cis women? Porn and the porn industry uses "shemale" and "tranny" as descriptions but they treat us that work in that industry just as good as they treat the cis women in that industry.
I mean I was born with a penis and grew up as a boy until puberty and then realized something was wrong. So I am a woman with a penis. women are called she and her and so on and males have a penis so I am a proud Shemale. I am also transgender which is a shemale so Tranny don't bother me either. You can call me whatever you want as long as it is with respect.
But the description I absolutely abhor is being called "It" but if I act feminine the female pronouns work for me.
If you feel the need to walk on eggshells here with me then don't. Grab your balls and ask me what I prefer to be called. Female pronouns I will tell you but Shemale and Tranny does not bother me in the least.