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Originally Posted by tslust
Well the ladies were experssing their feelings about their lifestyle being turned into a perverted fetich. And it's not about him siply haing a fantasy. The OP was asking to be forced into becoming a "shemale". His motivation is out of a sexual kink. What he, and many other guys (possibly yourself?) don't understand is that transitioning is a LIFESTYLE and can be very dangerous. I'm not just talking about the obvious medical concerns.
It's one thing to crossdress in the safety of your own house, where no one else can see you. Or to invite/meet guys or even GGs whom on some level enjoy the same pursuit (Either the guy likes dressing, himself or he just want's a gurl with something extra.) It's a whole other matter actually to step outside and I don't mean going to a club when they're having a drag queen night. The reason these ladies are upset is because the OP is trying to bring their lifestyle down to the same level as his fetich.
(Granted, I'm not living 24/7 as a female yet.) Do you realize that there are people who would kill us just for being who we are? Just last week, while talking online at an unnamed dating site, my life was threatened multiple times by guys who suspected that I might not be a GG.
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I am not happy to hear you have been threatened just for being yourself.
Isn't porn such a great equalizer though? There are a great many aggressive male homophobes who have said they have no desire to be with other men while admitting they do not want to find out if they might like it. Yet those same guys will watch 'straight' porn and have no reservations about looking at another man's cock.
I am happy that this site is generally supportive of real-life TS women and men as well as CDs/TVs, but am I crazy for thinking it should be ok to discuss kink on a site that features so much pornography of willing adults?
I know some very nice guys who love forced feminization or sissification sessions and an often included aspect of that involves the dominant woman or M2F CF referring to the submissive male as a 'weak little girl' or something like that, the implication being that female is inherently inferior to or weaker than male. It' s just their fantasy, it doesn't make it true.
Some of those guys are hardcore into the fantasy and will even take hormones for months in the hopes of their breasts becoming more tender. They are taking on a partial transition for their own reasons and I don't think kink should be outlawed. Real TS women are certainly entitled to scoff at those individuals, but as a part-time CD/TV myself who has been teased about my preferences and behaviors, I don't think my lifestyle has any real impact on TS's except as much as my 'non-queer' friends find me an acceptable part of their lives, despite my queerness.
I am not a TS, but there are times when I identify as a woman and I sometimes like playing dress up with my wife and some girlfriends and allowing them to do some of those things in the realm of feminization.