Years ago I remember a Star Trek episode in which Capt. Kirk got his white side and his dark side separated - the dark side was mean and evil - but many women thought very sexy. The white side was a weak spineless useless person.
It takes both the light and the dark to give us compassion on one hand and the aggressiveness to succeed on the other hand.
We need both but they have to work together to make us what we are - but as one of my favorite commentators, JamieTS, says "sometimes the dark side is good" - remember in school the girls always liked the boys who walked slightly on the bad side, but good enough that her parents wouldn't object
Would love to show Jamie and Fran my fun darkside !!!