[tonywaits]

Originally Posted by smc

Monogamy has been shown scientifically to be an unnatural state for humans. Why don't you talk to your wife about this "intense infatuation"? If your marriage is as good as you say, and you approach the conversation in a loving way, it may turn out to be a very good thing. Sure, it can be difficult in the beginning, but you never know.

My wife and I have an open marriage and it works very well for us. But, honesty is very important too. It is cheating if you lie about what you do, even in an open relationship.