Ila, smc, and myself for starters. There are many members on this forum who display true respect and admiration for transwomen. As smc has suggested, take a look around.

And the last time I checked, there was nothing wrong with wanting to fuck someone you think is hot…

Can't speak for other TS websites since I don't participate on any others. You may be right about them. I remain active here because of the friendships I've made.