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Originally Posted by BiancaLover
I'd love to, but the whole thing makes me nervous. Gotta drive to Detroit area, hope its not some kind of sting, etc...  |
Keep a few things in mind. First, deal with an escort rather than a prostitute. Prostitution is illegal escorting is not. With an escort, you are paying her for her time and companionship NOT for sex. Sex will probably happen with an escort, but it needs to be clear that you are two consenting adults who have agreed to a sexual encounter during your date. A professional escort will lead the date appropriately, but you will need to make the first moves toward anything sexual - you may (after some conversation) bring up a sexual fantasy for example... remember that an escort has WAY more to worry about getting arrested than you would.
Never ever ever ever give her money directly after sex. Aside from being rather rude, it is also admitting that you paid for sex (illegal). Leave it in plain view on a table or nightstand.
Make sure she is clear that you are paying her for her time and that IF you both agree to a sexual encounter, you would be interested. You cannot be arrested for taking a woman out or spending time with her, even if it leads to sex.
You may want to actually take her out once or twice to get comfortable with her and clear up any uneasiness. I'd bet an escort would appreciate some dates that didn't end up in sex. This in turn may make your actual sexual visit worthy of a post here.