I've created a Yahoo Group for transgender women and men who are SERIOUSLY looking for long-term-relationships/marriage with each other. It's a non-pornographic group and the mission of the group is NOT for seeking sex-partners (there are many other fora for that).
So if you're seriously looking for a partner maybe it would be an idea to sign up (remember to post a pic of yourself as well as an "I'm here" posting).
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/transgenderrelationships/
I'm a little strict in moderating the postings in order to keep it clean and to make sure all postings stick to the point.
Hank
PS: As my Yahoo Group is in no way commercial or in any way in conflict with the content and policy of this good forum, I hope it's ok by the moderators here to suggest this link.