Anyone who would do this ...
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Originally Posted by bossymax1981
My self esteem has taken a real dive and when I told him it bothers me when he talks about the real people, he said he'd never do anything to hurt me.
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... is one of the guys who causes women to conclude, quite reasonably, that all men are pigs.
At issue here is
not that he says it would never really happen, or that he would never hurt you. In fact, he has hurt you, by harming your self-esteem. Why should a man like that be rewarded with your companionship?
Fantasies are fine in relationships, so long as it is mutually acceptable to talk about or enact. The operative word here is
mutually.