Reading your post, I?m not sure that you have a ?problem? or really anything to worry about at all. You, like many of us here, discovered that you were attracted to transwomen as well as ciswomen. Rather than abandoning your passion for transsexuals, I hope that you will continue to cherish and embrace that part of your sexuality. Although recently married, and committed to one woman, I still appreciate the beauty of ALL women and have never considered my interest in cis or trans women to be a case of ?choosing one over the other.? Finally, to support what Fran has said, I also hope that you will continue to have respect for all women.