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Hi Sacdan ..

I think it all rather depends on your definition of "equal" ...

To me .. "equal" (in this context) means the giving & receiving of pleasure on a mutual basis .. both partners doing whatever pleases the other ..

There's no "right" or "wrong" .. I think you just need to meet a compatible partner .. someone who wants the same things from a relationship as you do ... And I'm sure there are lots of Girls like that out there ...

Like the old saying goes .. "For every Jack, there's a Jill" ..

I must confess that in my own relationships with Trans women .. I'm the Man .. She's the Woman, simple .. None of the Girls I've ever dated wanted to assume the "male" role, they wanted to express their femininity & be loved as women .. which suited me just fine ..

I'm afraid that the Porn industry has a lot to answer for, creating stereotypes & reinforcing popular misconceptions about Trans women ..

Good luck in your search ..