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Originally Posted by FlacoPro
Hey folks, I'm new here and I'll warn you that this is going to be a very long post. Well, I finally feel happy that I can share my issues with other people privately. Alright, first I'll start off by saying that I'm quite young, I'm a little over 18 but I became aware of Shemales when I was about 13.... ...But then after a while, then this phase will wear off and all of sudden my lust for trannies will come back even stronger than before. Then the phase will wear off and its back to me lusting only after women. And this cycle continues on and on and on. This has been going on since I was 13. Its just really tough for me, I just don't understand myself. Well, as of right now I'm in the phase where I'm lusting after trannies, so I'll be watching plenty of Shemales banging guys, Shemale domination etc since thats my main fetish lol. But then it'll wear off in a few weeks and I won't be able to watch it anymore. Well, I'm just happy I was able to share my thoughts with you guys. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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First of all everything you have said sounds pretty normal for someone who is 18. When I was 18 it was still 1989! My interests were: girls, football, fast cars, motorcycles, and computers. (read my profile--nothing has changed!
) It was much harder to find porn online and most of it was of really poor quality. Anyway, back to you? I wouldn?t worry too much!
Second, you must realize that ?trannies? are women. It might help to do a little research on the Internet. Maybe start by looking up a few of the performers that you like and learn about them. Many are quite open about discussing how they transitioned and what it is like to live as a transwoman. There is also a lot of information on this forum--and many who are willing to answer questions.
Third, are there any groups in your area that support LGBT teens? You didn?t say whether or not you were in college but most colleges and universities have some kind of student organization on-campus. It might help to meet others your age who share your interests. Also you would have the support of friends as well as counselors, discussion groups, and activities.
Finally, if you do develop problems such as guilt or anxiety over your feelings you should seek professional counseling. Most psychologists and counselors today are more ?enlightened? about gender issues than when I was your age. Again, a school organization may provide counseling or help to point you in the right direction.
Enjoy your life!
Dr. A