It definitely comes down to if you asking about giving or receiving and what your preference is. I received once in a hook-up and I can't say I enjoyed it at all even though I am quite use to using toys that were much larger than she was. I think this mainly came down to her insisting on being a bit more rough when I was telling her to slow down a bit. I've had my current gf fist me and that wasnt close to as uncomfortable as being fucked for some reason and my currently gf though is strictly bottom as her tight foreskin makes it too painful for her so I can't say I have much experience in that area to give you a good idea on what it's like. However giving is always great though and I have loved it ever since my first time and you won't be disappointed