There are some very good comments here. I think the comment, to each his own is very appropriate here. For me I can look at a nude transsexual women and get totally turned on, but when I look at a nude man it does absolutely nothing for me. It actually turns me off. I think we forget the meaning of the word gay, simply put gay means happy
and if you are happy with a transsexual great! If you are happy with a man, whatever floats your boat. Most people are generally happy so I would say that most people are generally "gay". Let's stop putting labels on everything and love one another. That will put a stop to all kinds of hate and hate crime. Just some of my thoughts on the issue, take it or leave it.
James