thnx jodie for the advice.
just a side thing, i have seen pics of her before she transitioned, and really, she just looks like a regular fem looking boy, i must say very little attraction to her at all. As a woman she looks stunning, i mean drop dead gorgeous, but when she was fem boy, ahhaa no attraction. so if she ever went back to boy, hmm maybe i would have a bigger question to deal with. Before she transitioned at all, just a boy, people assumed she was a girl anyway because she looked so fem, but when i saw her pics, just a boy.
other things i struggle with are that, i am attracted to girls only, or at least ones that look and act like girls (ts).
i have to out myself as gay to be with a person that only a straight person would be with anyway.....
anyway, time will tell what i do. she has her things to deal with first.
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