Fran, Bionca, ila, smc, and Shadows have open invitations to visit if they are ever down this way. Zionsville, is right off I-65 and easy to get to if one is travelling across the US.
As for meeting a "tgirl" in real life. I wasn't single for very long before I met my second wife. I would have loved to have met a beautiful transwoman for a long term relationship. Maybe my third wife?