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Old 07-31-2010
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Originally Posted by Bionca View Post
Let's see... I'm having morning coffee in a local coffee place while I wait on the bus every week day. I have my job then usually have dinner and take the dog for a walk. I do some food shopping on the weekends and every once in a while I'll go to a club.

I meet people every day - so obviously meeting a trans woman isn't a big mystery *shrug*
I think it is.
This is why.
Generally 50% of people are men or women.
Ts's are 0.003% of the population

I'm attracted to say a type of man
or a woman.
I meet said type in various ways from intros to work colleague
to supermarket to night club/ bar to a social function.
Then love and romance stuff starts or not.

With me so far?
Right, I'm now a man
{bare with me on this } {I'm with a bear? WTF?!!}
I'm into pre-op ts's.
So much so that I even know Transexual is actually spelt with two "S" 's
Oh, I'm only interested in pre-op's who generally "pass"
and are "quite attractive" through to "very attractive".
Um, ......this % is getting really tiny.....

I identify as a predominately straight man, with a bit of a twist
& read psychology books on the subject which show that everyone has an attraction to both male and female characteristics.
With a hetro identifying man this would be most aspects of female.
And with me that would apply, but there would also be some leaning to male aspects which I find attractive. But not men overall. {too much masculine, too little feminine}

Now as it happens, I live within 2 miles of where you live
and on occasions we pass each other both at a distance and close up.
We use the same coffee shop
and last week in the park I was buying an ice cream while you were walking your dog.

I would be attracted to you, partly coz of your gender history
& physical stuff, as well as your mind ---suggested by your posts on this site {& your blog*}.

For this post, you are only into men, and if we interacted, it would transpire that we are really good together, as friends or lovers...to be explored.

But the bummer is that despite us possibly being potentially good matches as life partners, we are not even aware of each others existence.

Why?
That little thing called stealth.
So, that rare ts background is hidden & men wanting to date ts's coz of that are not likely to meet you in real life.
And if they did
would have no idea you are ts...

As well as some of the very things the men are attracted to are the very things we loathe about ourselves. Physical mental & reality of our history.

Now away from this thread and back to reality.
I would guess like me most / all the people you date, initially interacted with you in a trans space;
  • be it a tg forum /chat room,
  • tg club/bar,
  • or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on your past,
  • or they used to date a friend of yours who is also Ts,
  • and so on.

Very few people date Ts persons, without there also being the trans space background, somewhere.

Bionca,
There is one way for men to interact with large number of Ts's,
Like:
  • hang out with
  • have ts's phone you
  • watch movies
  • have Ts's come over to look after you when you are ill
  • let you crash on their sofa,
  • Insist you look & feel their breasts after the boob job
  • and so on....

Not sure we should tell them, they may not be ready for it...

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* hey it's gone quiet on your blog;
Write more, it was good shit.
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