Here are thre links to places for bars/events meeting t-girls for dating:
GoodHandys
Toronto, Canada. The pansexual playground, they label them selves :-)
http://www.goodhandys.com
Trixies Bar
Florida based night club for TG and admirers.
http://www.trixiesbar.com
TG Solena's Yahoo group for match-making
US based
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/solena_chaniago/
May I suggest that you add other bars/events for real-life meetings if you know any such places. Obviously, there are many in Thailand but it is a bit harder to find such places in the West - also it may be an idea to focus on match-making and not really escort-places.
Hank