You've hit the nail on the head here, if it's about the person, then it should not make any real difference,if it's just about the sex it clearly makes one hell of a difference. After all, sexual chemistry is vital for ANY relationship. If you are attracted to females and femininity, then surely love can succeed with a post op TS ( I use TS purely as a term with no offence meant or implied as I don't know the "rules" on labelling people) as well as pre op.
I'm not into masculine women of any kind, regardless of their mindset, sexually or otherwise. For me a ts woman/woman has to look and behave like a woman, regardless of genitalia.
My only experience with a TS girl was with an escort, she was stunning, beautiful and extremely feminine, you would not know, I was shit scared!! but the fact she had a dick made no difference to my perception of her as a woman, could I have fallen in love? well who knows, after spending only an hour with her, would clearly be foolish to comment, as with any brief encounter with any attractive female. As I don't class myself as gay or bisexual it was her female persona above all that made me feel the attraction, her physical certainly helped, her cock made it all the more exciting of course.
I guess what I am getting at is it all depends on how you look for/meet a new relationship, your never likely to end up marrying an escort of any kind, you may meet a ts woman at work and fall madly in love, penis or not. But to make the object of your emotional desire a post op girl seems to me no different than the desire for a genetic one. If it is the lady dick that flicks your switch then the original question must only be about lust..
just my thoughts on the matter, guess I'm trying to make sense of my own feelings, I'm sure there's a lot more to this !
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