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Originally Posted by techno883 View Post
I'm seeing a lot of posts lately from JamieTS, a very nice thing. Jamie seems very keen on the fact a lot of us (non TS) out here don't have much of a clue what or how the TS community thinks. Kind of makes some of us thankful if not feeling stupid or 'just not with it'. So let me say thank you to JamieTS and keep telling us wandering / searching souls what we are here to know more about. But I need to know this, You mention 'Cosmo'. Do you mean Cosmopolitan? Do they specifically mention the Transgender community? Have you noticed 'feedback' from their 'cis' customers?
Thank you. No I don't read that magazine or any others anymore. I used to read Glamour a lot but yeah it was from Cosmopolitan.

Look. Honestly there is no reason to feel stupid or "just not with it". We are all just wandering and searching for whatever makes us happy and we can live with. I will say this much though, we are not special so don't make a big deal out of her being trans. She is just another woman and if she makes a big deal out of it then run.

Not to go into religion but I have a saying about preachers, ministers, preists, pastors and so on. I tell everyone that has so much faith in them that they are just as fucked up and confused as we all are.

I mean I don't make a big deal out of being a trans woman so don't treat me like I have a broken leg and need to be pitied. If someone wants to date me then I want them to ask me out because they find me attractive, not to prove that they are open minded and so on.

I mean I will give you want you want but like any other woman, I am going to make you work for it. That means you have to romance me. Wining and dining, roses and opening my door for me and pulling my chair out for me and so on. I'm just a woman and love when a man is a man and treats me like a woman.

Just the main thing is that we are not all porn stars, well some of us are but the majority are not. We are not all prostitutes and again some of us are but most of us are not. We may be horny but we are not gonna' just give it up. Well some of us will but most won't. So this is the point that I am trying to make. Don't assume just because she is trans that she will automatically want that right off the bat. I really thought that this could help a lot of guys that are attracted to trans women.

How about this for Irony? Roughly 1.4 million people in the US are trans gender and most are MTF and these are only the people that admit to it. These are the people that do HRT and SRS so chances are that you meat Trans women and Trans men all the time in everyday life. Believe me in public I am not gonna' wave my banner because of social norms but we are out there. For me its about XXY instead of just XX or XY.

Look, to a lot of us being trans women is no big deal. It is just as natural as being a woman to cis women. We don't really want our dates making a big deal out of it either. If you are attracted to my femininity than that is a good thing. If you are attracted to what I have between my legs or can over look it and totally accept my femininity then that is a really good thing.

I will not lie because there are a lot of trans women that are so sensitive about it. You can't joke about it because it just hurts them so much. With me, after I get to know you I will even joke about it with you. But with me on a date for the first few times, tranny and shemale are big no nos. Later if we hit it off then you can call me what you want in privacy because I call myself that too. But not in public and in a good natured joking way and not in a mean way.

I hope this makes a little sense.
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