[hankhavelock]

Having a relationship with an escort ? yes

There?s another myth I would like to puncture ? namely the one that once an escort, always an escort ? aka ?you can take the girl out of the bar, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl?.

This is a myth that flourishes on many fora ? and it is untrue ? clear and simple. Also (and maybe especially) when it comes to trans-escorts. Btw, why would I necessarily WANT to take the bar out of her?

It is most likely a myth by men who would have trouble finding a woman (of whatever gender) anyway, is my thesis. Thus, they naturally turn to being bitter and nasty. Anyways... never mind them...

Admittedly, I?m not a guy who has roamed the bordellos for sex ? none the less, I probably know more (about) escorts than most ? I have most likely more escorts as my deepest friends than most ? and I have presumably had more very deep and honest love-relations with escorts than most. Not as a client but as a man.

Why? Perhaps because I consider escorting and being a hooker a highly respectful job ? especially if the girl likes it, of course. That would go for any job.

If we take love out of the equation just for now: my absolutely best friend who is currently overseeing my company and my entire stay in this part of the world is, indeed, an escort. A ladyboy escort. Successful and gorgeous ? and never did I receive greater loyalty and friendship. It goes back since I came here. She?s the only one I fully trust. In Asia you quickly learn to mind your money ? my trans-friends and among them escorts have been the most trustworthy and loyal.

The old punters (a ?punter? is a person who uses the services of a prostitute) would now say: yes, you?ve just been lucky and besides, Hank, you?re an asshole, a bleeding heart liberal and we dislike you... Well, the bule/farang punters for sure mostly dislike me, because I dare challenge their socalled ?wisdom? (and basically, they consider me an idiot who has not understood even the tiniest bit of anything) ? which is based on an economy-trip to the tropics (or maybe 20 economy-trips once they get smitten), so I cannot take that too seriously ? I cannot deny it either that I?m most certainly an arrogant prick with an attitude. And I normally don?t find the ?punter-wisdom? particularly wise ? not because they are punters, but because they often make their own limited experiences into ?gospel? ? the same way muslim radicals do, actually ? and don?t u dare challenge their limited little sphere of ?knowledge?...

But the fact remains, again by my empirics, that escorts are, indeed, most often sweeter, kinder and tons much deeper than their non-escort sisters.

Have I been lucky? You bet. And am I using my experiences as my statistical foundation ? right again.

Shoot at me now!

Peace

H

PS: I used to be active here a few years ago - tonight I just felt an urge to post again. I expect most to disagree - that's usually the deal.