[hankhavelock]

I placed this under another thread, but maybe I misplaced it a bit.

Just sharing and would love to enhance my skills... :-)

In the beginning I was a true beginner... surely, I'd always been an accomplished cis*girl pussy eater and some of the same techniques apply (the ones about FEELING your lover), but this was new until Fey (my first trans-gf) demanded to train me. I never enjoyed getting blown myself so much (and trans*women generally don't suck any better than cis*girls by my limited experience) but others do, so I had to learn the trade to be a joy to her...

Here's what I learned:

- Keep your teeth away from her penis - sucking ok, biting NOT ok!

- Suck her DEEPLY - I dunno why, but when you really take her deeply inside your mouth and throat she seems to enjoy it more DEEPLY

- Cover your teeth with your lips when the sucking goes faster - remember NO teeth!

- Let your tongue work the underside of her penis as well - the magic sensation of your sucking comes from your whole mouth, not your lips alone. Her major sensitivity is, ofcourse, at the rim of her penis head, but don't underestimate the joy for her when you stimulate her entire womanhood.

- Change position - don't always lie between her legs when you blow her - do it upside down as well. 69 is ok even though I always loose concentration in this position... but maybe it works for you.

- Figure out her sensitivity - some like it hard, som like it vey soft - some VERY VERY soft... again... NO BITING or STIFF LIPS!

- Don't forget her balls! Don't forget the area below her penis and balls - and while you're at it, give her a masterly rimming as well... nothing grander than when she closes her eyes from the true pleasure of having her sweet little ass sucked and french-kissed masterly... and don't worry if you sense a bit of "shit-smell" - that's normal and personal and can even even be part of bringing you two closer togeher.

- And don't neglect the rest of her body...

- Spit your fingers and massage her nipples simultaneously - takes a bit of practice... use lubricant generously on your hands as well. If you make love without condoms any oil is good. If with condoms only use water-based silicone lubricants. Oil-based lubricants dissolve the latex.

- Break off when she's not responding and go back to kissing/touching or what ever she likes. But don't break off abruptly! Keep your cool and just naturally move up to her and get her going again - the thing is that too much focus on her penis can make her loose "the gist" - never forget she's a woman! And women are challenging... ;-)

- If she wants to jerk for a while then let her, but be ready to take her in your mouth when she has stimulated herself enuff to orgasm.

- This is important - never rush when she's ready... festina lente... just calmly let her let go of her penis and take her in your mouth. You usually have between 1 to 5 seconds. And that's more than enuff if you're concentrated about her.

- At this point you probably don't have to do much sucking as her orgasm is already happening. But the technique of blowing her through her orgasm is also important to enhance it. My experience is NOT to be too hard - better too soft. This is were you REALLY follow her through to give her maximum pleasure. My experience again is to be on the soft side with mouth-pressure. Keep it constant but soft and her screams will be your price :-)

- And DO swallow! Down with it... NO spitting! That's bad style. It may appear a bit "ruff" in your throat (yes, sperm actually has sort of a strangely spicy taste) but the taste is fine... and it is HER sperm... love it!

- And remember to be VERY mild sucking her after her orgasm - just let her calmly "cum down" and follow her movements with passion AND with empathy. Suck her softer and softer until she's totally spent.

- ALWAYS be conscious of HOW you suck her - be aware of her signals - ask her - let her guide you... it takes a little practice for a little str8 boy, but like me you'll be fine :-) And according to Fey I went from novice to a true master in about one week... so it can't be that hard to learn :-)

- And ENJOY! This is about pleasure!

Best of luck!

H