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Default Look. This is kind of an awkward situation with names.

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Originally Posted by CCC View Post
Ila Could you please list out all the acceptable and the not acceptable names.

People walk around in here on egg shells.
Example: shemales yes or no the title about is "chat About Shemales"

Thanks
Really no need to walk on eggshells. I am a shemale, tranny, transwoman or woman. I was born male. I have a penis. Psychologically I am a she but physically more or less a male so I am a shemale. I am transgendered too in that I think and feel more like a woman emotionally so my gender does not match my physical body somewhat so I am trans gendered. I am a tranny.

Shemale. Why would that offend me? It can if it is used disrespectfully. It may be a description of the porn industry but it has made a lot of women quite a bit of money.

Tranny. Trans gendered or trans woman. It can also be used disrespectfully but also the porn industry has used this description of us too. I can't blame you for using this description as long as it is used respectfully instead of with distaste.

I am a girly girl in that I totally am feminine. I am not a genetic girl which most people would call cis women. But I am a girly girl. The clothes' the shoes' the makeup' the hair. the emotions, and so on. As a matter of fact some GGs if used as a genetic girl turn into Trans men. That would be like calling me a GM. So normally GG is used as a description of Girly Girls. Take Buck Angel. He is genetically a woman but he is a Manly Man. So the proper term between transgender and non trans gender is Trans and Cis.

Seriously though CCC, no descriptions offend me or should anyone because we know where you get the names from. It isn't as much about descriptions and names as much as it is about respect. Just be respectful. That is all we ask. Some do get offended by names because they haven't quite come to terms or too fragile psychologically even. I know who and what I am. Why deny it. I tell any guy up front. But then again I ain't hiding anything. If I go to a straight bar with girlfriends then I will thank a guy for a drink and that is all.

There was a member here that offended me because he talked about trans women looking like men dressed in women's clothes. In other words hairy legs, facial stubble and so on dressed in women's clothing. That sounds like no trans woman that I know of. In total actuality trans women shave their legs probably more than cis women do. Even in the winter time. Even in jeans. We usually love the feel of smooth legs not because of you necessarily but our selves. We go through hell with hair removal. We do not have 5 O'clock shadow. Shaving sometimes twice a day is irritating to the face, but we get used to it for you guys. We really don't want you to be seen with us with 5 o'clock shadow poling through our makeup. We don't want that for ourselves even but it is for you. So we shave with the grain first and then totally against the grain not once but twice a day. Then we usually wake up early and do it again for you.

But seriously this is a trans forum and I am trans. I know where most guys get the descriptions from and I prefer to be called a woman but shemale and tranny don't bother me at all.

Please stop walking on eggshells and just be respectful no matter what description you use. If I am here then I know the deal. If I was so fragile that descriptions bothered me so much then I would be on other sights crying about it.

Look. Guys here are so special. I know where the curiosity stems from. It really is a good thing because it gives us legitimacy as women. Not only women but desirable women.

So stop worrying so much about the eggshells. Just be respectful, never compare us to men and ask away. Only one person that I know of has offended me here. No one else.
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