Ok so here is the deal.
I'm a pre-op transsexual woman.
I am mainly attracted to other women.
So that means I'm gay.
But I have a long term partner, a man.
We met years after I transitioned. I always said I was mainly into women
but he persisted in chatting. And we became friends and later, partners.
I still feel mainly attracted to women and he knows this.
- Using your skill and judgement,
In ten lines or less,
explain which Label or labels are appropriate to me.
- Also for five bonus points
Discuss the suggestion that:
Any Man, sexually attracted to me is by default, in fact a gay woman. 
Refer to the
Does liking shemales make you gay? thread
for supporting points to your conjecture.
You have 35 minutes, no conferring, starting....Now!