Wow! Up too early.
Speaking as a female who enjoys sex with both men and women; If I want to suck, play with, admire, or be penetrated by a large and hard penis I'll call my straight male lover. If I want to make love to a woman, well, we know what I'll dine on there!
As I explore my new-found interest in shemales I find that I'm not attracted to those with large, or even "normal" penises. For me, part of the charm is the small penis possessed by some shemales, especially the Asians even more especially the penises of castrated ones.
By "small" I don't mean those that are smallish when totally flaccid but then become battering rams when aroused. "Small" means SMALL!
Then again, that's just me