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Originally Posted by hankhavelock
As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)
Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.
Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.
This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)
Peace!
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Yay Hank!!
I can't stress your last point about taking time to get used to it enough. The natural reaction is to clench up and push out. It is very important to remember this for the first time tops and bottoms. Do the initial penetration in slow easy stages. Tip first and wait, then ease in slowly and wait ...
It should also be noted that a little preparation goes a long long way. Fingers, tongue and toys are very useful and should be used liberally. Lube is also a must as well as condoms - seriously, it's not hot or sexy but lots of you guys are seeing escorts so play smart and safe.