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Old 09-12-2017
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Can't we all just enjoy beauty wherever we find it?

I don't believe it is a phenomenon as much as a normal process. Like someone said about nerdy game girls and posing as such. I don't think they are posing as much as testing themselves. I may be wrong but it is a way of trying something before committing to it fully. It is a way out sort of.

This shit is scary. It is a pain in the ass to shave your legs and everywhere else everyday. I can go a day without shaving my legs but my face? No and that is a pain in the ass getting baby smooth until your skin gets used to it. Before your skin toughens up to take the blade you get razor burned and still even after sometimes. It is a pain in the ass with the plucking and tweezing and learning how to do your makeup just right to pass reasonably well. I loved the eighties with the over-the-top makeup for women. Now it is more subtle. It is scary to go into a department store and shop in the women's sections and so on. If you have an excuse then it makes you feel a little more comfortable and so a lot of people use the androgynous character thing.

There is a phenomenon now and I ain't judging no way no how but that is the non binary, gender queer and androgynous thing. I feel feminine and always have even before it was a political thing. I do enjoy things that are more masculine like camping, hiking, hunting and shooting guns. But a lot of cis women do too. I am not special and don't wanted to be treated as such. I am not a protected class either. No one is we are all just people and that is it. If someone don't like me because I am trans then why would I want them to accept me and be my friend? I would rather know when someone don't like me so I can either use their business or services and then spread the word around. If someone hates me then that is there right, just like I have a right not to like someone myself.

To the poster that doesn't like the term shemale. I guess I am a little different because I am a shemale. I am a she in a male body. The context of how terms are used is what should insult us and not labels. Shemale is hot on porn sights. There are a lot of guys that know that term endearingly and without malice. Tranny is the same. Why should I be insulted? It just shows that a lot of men, even straight men find us attractive.

Self realization and a strong sense of self identity is a long hard process for everyone and I do mean everyone. Then you have sexual identity and gender identity on top of that?

In short. Traps aren't trying to trap anyone. They are just finding their own identity with a lifeline back if need be. When I was younger and prettier I guess anyone could have called me a trap but I was full blown though. But in the very beginning I would go and buy, shoes, clothes and makeup for my "girlfriend". I learned how to play the guitar just because of being able to pierce both of my ears, buy makeup and do other feminine things for gigs and blame it on the gigs. That was the eighties in the height of hair metal. Now instead of using hair metal to do these things so now there are protected classes due to politics. I am not going to say it sux but where were they when I was growing up? I grew up in Arkansas and Bill Clinton was the Governor and yes he was married to Hillary back then. She was pretty back them but she hated everyone especially women. What is a trans gender person to a politician? A vote and that is it. They don't care about any issues that anyone goes through other than keeping them in office. Personally I am a Libertarian but a Log Cabin Republican because I remember what Obama and Hillary thought about gay marriage before they were for it to maintain power.

God! Before that long rant thingy I went on. Just enjoy their beauty. If you find them attractive then so be it. If they have a penis and you find them attractive and feminine then don't be ashamed. Reassure them if you want to date them. Make them feel good about themselves. It may not last forever on one's or the other's part but they are trying to find themselves. I am lucky because a man reassured me and with a few hiccups and still testing myself after the relationship fell apart I figured it out and embraced it and cut the lifeline back to what I never really was to begin with.

One last thing before I shut up. Who are we going to let dictate us? Our own individuality and mind or society? What makes us happier, being our own individual and finding love whenever it comes even though it may not be permanent or how we are seen in society?

Sorry for the long reply.
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