Kitten, you are just a lovely woman, you're just adorable. You shouldn't feel the least bit insecure about your sex appeal. Young men are going to crawl for your attention and drool all over. Do not have any hesitation. From the photo you seem shapely, soft skinned, delicate, petite; a being to be revered (and not in a too religious way). I think it goes without saying that everybody who desired you will be as burning with desire as before and more. Eventualy you will probably make a guy the happyest dude in the world. I wish you all the best for your operation. I feel so happy for you. Although i don't know you, i will think hard about you in the next week. Please, keep us informed of how you are thru this.