Transsexualism does actually occur in nature. There are various species of fish and reptiles that we know will change sex depending on environmental factors.
Also, it seems a primary focus of men who are attracted to gals like me to first question and then go to great length to deny being gay. My first thought is.. does it matter?
Then I realize that having someone else chose something as important as ones identity stinks. It doesn't matter if that is relating to gender or sexual orientation. Being incorrectly classified and treated differently because of that mistake hurts, is dangerous, and is generally confusing.
From my perspective, and I'd wager that of any trans* person, is that I have already sorted that stuff out. I have already heard it, seen it, ran from it and finally embraced it. It's like a Physist helping their young child struggle with addition, it's hard to remember this being difficult.
If fear of being mis-labeled as gay for liking a trans* woman is THAT big of a deal, then you may want to think long and hard about how real your attraction is. Think about how real your fantasy of meeting and being with a TG really is. If you really couldn't handle being called "fag" if someone clocks your girlie, perhaps this is best left to the realm of porn/fantasy. You see, I hate being braver than the men I date.
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