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Originally Posted by lbfno
I think you people are being a little harsh.
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Not trying to be harsh at all and your point is completely valid. Only trying to get the terms sorted out here :-)
Fetishism is "objectification", meaning that you get aroused by particular objects, materials or even body parts. Fetishism is not being sexually attracted to a particular gender - that's sexual orientation no matter if in real life or just as a fantasy. If you feel attracted to trans*women that doesn't make you a fetishist at all.
Actually, a trans*fetishist is a person who gets aroused by putting on attires of his/her opposite biological gender.
Enjoy your fantasies and find the level that's right for you. But also remember that our sexuality is not a static thing. We change over time and maybe some day you will want to bring it from fantasy to reality. And that will be fine too.
But a fetishist you're not in this regard.
Peace!
H