[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by ila

I wouldn't take the recommendation of one disgruntled customer too seriously. I've seen on other boards where it was mentioned that she is good in bed. I've never met her and probably never will, so I can't give an opinion on her.

I have to side with Ila on this one. In fact, I look at it this way.
Sorry about this running a bit long, but it's something I wanted to get off my chest...

1) Assuming Amy/Emma is out there, sitting on a bench in front of some club in Pattaya each night...

2) And taking into account how much Thailand has become a mecca for hordes of horny, sex crazed, pleasure-seeking men...

3) And given how popular and even infamous Amy/Emma has become simply because her face and body have been plastered all over the internet for even more hordes of guys to drool over and jerk off to...

...You have to figure that she runs into A LOT of guys who fall into one of two categories.

The first group of guys is the "drooling fan boy". This is a guy who has seen her pictures online, who has fantasied about her or buying her "services" for a night, and who then actually went to Pattaya specifically to track her down. And when you stop and think about it, that's almost like saying someone went there to literally stalk her. Seriously, this is a guy who's flown halfway round the world and gone to Bangkok with ONE idea in his head: he wants to walk around and poke his head in and out of all the clubs looking JUST for her.

Okay, fine, maybe he's a real fan at heart. Maybe calling him a stalker might seem a bit harsh since (ideally) he hopes to treat her nice. The only problem is, now that can be a problem, too. Because from Amy/Emma's point of view, now he's not treating her like a lady or like a real human being (liking her for "who" she really is), but instead he's just a star-struck guy that is fawning all over her because he jerked off to her online. So the truth is he's REALLY there for only one reason and that's to make his fantasy real.

Meanwhile, she's sitting there with "drooling fan boy" and in her heart she's a bit sad. She's still wishing and hoping she could just meet a genuinely nice guy, someone with a stable income that could take care of her, that she could make a life with -- hell, maybe she wants to meet a guy who doesn't even know about her internet fame or sex star status, who would simply bump into her at the grocery store and then fall in love her over a few dinner dates for who she really is inside -- yes, as corny and old fashioned as that sounds!

On the flip side of things (and even worse if you're Amy/Emma), she probably then has to deal with the second group of guys, who are the out and out pleasure-seekers visiting Pattaya, who have come there with the arrogant sex visitor attitude of "I bought you for the night and that means I'll treat you however I want. So now you'll DO whatever I say." Which is truly treating her unlike a lady or a real person -- you've reduced her to a bought slave, a piece of meat for your pleasure -- which must make her feel even worse. I imagine she gets that a lot, too. I bet it's headache-inducing for her to just sit on her bench at night and have guys come up to her that will say certain things, feeling they can get away with anything just because they're visiting from out of town and there she is, Amy the TS superstar, right in front of them. The hotty TS that they've seen online that they can now say rude and crude things to.

Hell, take it one one step further. WORST of all for Amy/Emma would be combining the two groups together. Having to deal with a drooling fan who's gone there to find her...to buy her services...but who then wants to treat her like a guy from Group Two and like a piece of bought meat to get off on that power trip. All so he canthen fly home and brag to his buddies, "Yeah, I bought Amy. That's right, I fucked her internet star ass. I made her suck my cock and do whatever I said. I made her my bitch and showed her who's king." As horrible as that sounds, you have to imagine she runs into quite a few creeps like that all the time, too.

So, frankly, I feel bad for many of these "online stars" of the TS world that are out there, who are still doing personal meetings like Amy might still be doing (though no one here seems to know for sure whether she is or not) or for Moo or Wawa or Areeya or Megan or Lusi or...well, insert the name of your favorite star here. Basically, I feel bad for the level of crap that they probably have to put up with on a daily basis. If nothing else, look at it this way -- I bet you wouldn't like people treating you that way or making cheap, snarky sex comments about you either.

So, like Ila, when I hear that someone is ragging on Amy (or whoever for that matter) and they're posting that she has a bad attitude or that she's bad in bed or whatever, it often makes me wonder what that person is actually like -- the poster, I mean. And it makes me wonder what REALLY might have happened between them when they met (if they met at all, which is a whole other story!). And it makes me wonder whether the bad stories you hear about Amy don't REALLY center on her simply standing up for herself at times and not allowing guys to treat her too badly -- and thus she somehow gets a "bitchy" reputation. Like Ila, I doubt there will come a day when I'll actually run into Amy/Emma. I mean, I don't have any plans to fly to Pattaya on my calendar. But in the meantime -- and unless I do meet her and can personally vouch for an incident firsthand -- then like Ila I also see no reason to participate in character assassination or to bad mouth Amy or to believe stories that she's snotty or bad in bed or whatever. It all seems like cheap shots directed at someone who might not be deserving of such things at all.

Besides, she's got an adorably cute face.
So, I'm betting there's a good heart behind it...