I agree. Sexuality isn't black and white, there arent any yes or no answers here. I firmly believe everyone has his own scale of sexual preferences. It's like requiring that you choose to eat only meat or be a vegetarian. Some people are extremes at either end, but most (and I think like nearly all) experience some variations toward one end of the spectrum or the other. I was brought up in a strictly straight family, but as a child of the '70s was exposed to other sexual preferences. I used to share a bed during sleep overs with my best friend in 9th grade and after her parents went to bed, we made out and got into some really great sex without even knowing what we were doing. The thing is, don't worry about it. It's just sex. Do what feels good and say "fuck off" to those who would judge you.
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