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i came into this thread looking for advice about how to prepare myself for my first intimate rendezvous with a shemale. i've never had anything inserted before. i guess i could look for a nearby sex shop and get a dildo, though i'm sure most people already know it's not the same. what i've found is something much better. despite the fact that as a civilization we have evolved massively since even as liitle as 50 years ago, there are several things that are considered unmentionable, even taboo. i think the main reason internet porn is so huge is because people don't have to worry what others think of them because they'll never know. it's kind of sad that the nation we live in cultivates the notion that if you aren't a certain way, then you should feel ashamed and embarassed. so here's your outlet and don't let anyone else know about it. not that i'm comparing love of shemales to it, but in a way, the stigma still applies. people are still constantly beaten and killed because of their closet or open homosexuality. the same applies for certain customs and beliefs. it makes me think that we as a species are programmed to find conflict, because look at the trivial things we fight and kill over even though we've come all this way. people lie all the time when they say they accept something, and then it's a big controversy when the are discovered saying in private the contrary. ordinary people and world leaders, when you disect the humanity in each, aren't all that different. it's evident especially in government, look at how much the constitution in it's original form has changed as compared to the way things are now. our country is great, in some ways better than the situation of other nations, but it is far from the way our forefathers envisioned it over 230 years ago. but now i'm ranting, anyway i wish that literature expressing our sexual preference could be taken seriously, but it seems this world is not yet ready to be so accepting as to understand that even the word 'normal' can be descriminating. who's to say what is normal? only our creator(s) (and so as not to start any kind of religious discussion, i won't go into specifics as to why i wrote it the way i did) have that knowlege. or in aethiasts' case, no one. and be that as it may, i think us being alive renders everything we do okay (using common sense to determine bad things). so only we can decide when to begin the process of unjudgemental unity. who knows, if you find the right way to do it, because obviously you can't force your beliefs on someone else (just look at the war for reference on how that turns out, even the very word itself is rooted in that fact), a truly peaceful world may be a possible reality.