Ok, ok.
I get your point. But every Tg must come to terms with the male part of herself, at some point along the journey. Are not the terms
Trans-sexual,
Trans-gender also
expressing something of
gender-transfer?
I know
Lady-boy or She-male or Fem-boy are words that remind a Tg of her being partly male, .. may be in the
past 
. ?
What is the proper term for a Tg then? Girl, woman,
just girlfriend? Nobody who wants a relation with a Tg would go ahead and consciously annoy her anyway. That would be a
premotivated insult!