As of October 23rd. I still can't find anything (yet) about our own local ceremony in the Indianapolis area. Ours often falls on a day other than the traditional 20th of November. I'll keep trying but I've decided regardless I will have my own private ceremony at my home in Zionsville. Mainly just friends and family. Probably a fairly small gathering of less than 20-25. The following website explains what the "TDOR" is and offers some tips on hosting your own remembrance:
https://www.glaad.org/tdor
If nothing else, please take a moment to reflect on all the friends we've lost this past year. It's been a bad one. Sadly this year marks the
10th anniversary of attending my first TDOR. I don't think that things are necessarily better now than then. We have a long ways to go.