[Ogryn1313]

Only one person ever suspected I am into tgirls and that was my exfiance. She and I came from two very different backgrounds.

See, my very first exposure to the world of sex was through porn as a small boy. My babysitter showed me magazines and videos and taught me how to masturbate. Needless to say I always looked forward to being babysitted..babysat? So as a kid up until now pornography has been the main source of stimulus for my sex life. Somewhere along the way my interest in tgirls developed.
My exfiance on the other hand was never exposed to porn let alone alternative sexual lifestyles. Apparently she was a little good two shoes. When she moved in with me she discovered my porn and made me get rid of it. Major war. I was happy to oblige her but unhappy in that she tried to demonize me for having it. So it seemed the crisis was over. Then one day while away she discovered by digging around in my pc pics I had viewed of tgirls online. I came home to finding a big display she created by having printed out all the pics and such. I felt like some criminal being attacked by an evidence armed detective.
Her main question and attack was "are you a fag?!?" You can imagine the nature of the argument we had for days on end. It was distinctly one sided with her. Of course I wasn't a fag. To me liking tgirls is as normal as liking genetic girls. Ok, so their cocks interest me. Ok, so I would like to experience their cocks. It's still not a gay thing in my opinion. My exfiance, having come from such a different background than mine couldn't see it.
It came down to nothing but a clash of backgrounds, values and beliefs. Naturally, to her, I was some sick sexual deviant. And to me she was just a jealous bitch. You see, even though I like tgirls and porn, etc, doesn't mean I am unfaithful. I never cheated on a woman in my life and never would. And if porn is seen as cheating by my partner then I will not deal with porn. But my exfiance had already passed judgement and apparently unable to change her opinion.
As it turns out she decides out of the blue she is bisexual, says we can bring in another girl. Perhaps this was some attempt to keep me interested in her. Eventually she modifies all this into a free love thing in which we could both sleep with other partners. The thing is I didn't want any of this and so such hook ups did not happen. However, she didn't offer me the same loyalty and did fuck another guy and ran off with him breaking our engagement.
Now was this a result of my interest in shemales? Was it a result of my interest in porn?
I dont think so. Despite these things I'm a loyal man in a relationship. It was a result of clash of background, values and beliefs, BUT also her insecurity, jealousy, and perhaps her own issues.
So, if you have problems with a man who is interested in shemales do not rush to assumptions. Do not let your insecurity ruin it either. Ask yourself "My man likes tgirls but will he still want me and be true to me?" I honestly don't think sexual interests, fetishes, etc, should be the source of disaster in relationships. It comes down to your love and trust in each other.