Lets try this again, the forum logged me off while I was posting this.
Personally, from what I'm reading of your post, your BF could be blowin smoke up your tail. A couple of possible reasons for this....
1. Its a passing fantasy, and nothing really to be concerned about.
2. He may be very afraid of your reaction if the truth were known. He might be afraid you might reject him, or think of him of a lessor person. Have you ever thought about how you would handle it if he did tell the truth? Would you accept it, or reject him for it?
These are just speculation. I can only speak for myself. Strictly speaking, I sexually attracted to the TS or shemale. But this DOES NOT automatically make me gay or bisexual. I'm also sexually attracted to females. I have no sexual attraction for men whatsoever.
I've lived a long time pursuing the straight or vanilla life, strictly hetro, and found it lacking. I decided to pursue a more kinky lifestyle. This doesn't mean I said "to hell with everything and everyone" and when out and pursued it. I had to act responsibly for my welfare, and for the welfare of others. I also had to be sensitive to others feelings.
Some people make thing of the TS or TG as a weirdo, but in actuality, they are individuals that have decided what will make them happy in life and pursued it. A lot of people think they know what will make them happy and only talk about it. The TS and TG took it one step further, they "walked their talk". I respect that, and have decided to make it my own creed.
Think it over, talk with him about it more, don't be threatening, however if you do decide you can't accept it, and leaving the relationship might be the best thing, strive to do it on a friendly basis. If you decide to accept it, then decide what your limits will be, discuss them, agree to them, and see what you can do to even participate in things that might increase your levels of enjoyment.
Look forward to hearing more from you.
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