Bionca
Dates you desperately want are like trout in a stream - the more you reach out to grasp them the more they seem to slip away.
Others have already given you much advice to take heart from :
- Don't ever give up hope
- Only hunt with a girlfriend
- Let Love take its time to settle on you
And that remark about the frantic pheromone is closer to the mark than you think.
I am lucky in that I have found ( or been found by ) the love of my life, but it hasn't always been so. I feel very much for you, and hope the warmth of friendship all around you will sustain you until you do.